Go to the confinement center or take care of by mother-in-law
I would choose to go to the confinement center for confinement
don't worry about anything,
don't worry about eating, drinking and taking care of children,
learn some experience slowly,
you can take care of your baby in a month.
safe, but the risk is still very large.
With the improvement of economic conditions and the change of ideas, more and more Baoma are unwilling to let the elderly take care of their children after giving birth. They are more inclined to spend money to go to the confinement center or invite a month's sister-in-law to come home. This can not only rece a lot of family conflicts, but also Baoma can get more professional care, which is more concive to Baoma's postpartum recovery
my friend has been pregnant for more than 5 months and is thinking about confinement recently. The conditions of a friend's home are not bad, and her mother-in-law is busy with her work, so she has no time to take care of her baby. She will help her friends financially. Whether she wants to book a baby care center or find a reliable sister-in-law depends on her friend's decision. Friends are also very tangled, living in the confinement center is relatively easy, but to leave home, will also weaken the husband's sense of participation. It's more comfortable to invite a month's sister-in-law home without leaving the familiar living environment, but it's more likely to cause family conflicts. So friends have been indecisive
③ can enhance the husband's sense of participation: living in one's own home, let the sister-in-law take care of, will also enhance the father's sense of participation. When Bao's father comes home from work, he can help take care of the baby and learn how to take care of the baby. At the same time, you can take care of Baoma more and chat with Baoma more, which can not only cultivate baopa's sense of responsibility, but also help couple's feelings
Yuesao usually only takes care of children, with low cost performancemany Yuesao only take care of their babies, no matter their mothers or even their clothes. The family also has to manage the food, drink and sleep of the sister-in-law, which may bring burden to the family, and the cost performance is too low
2. It is easy to cause family conflicts
if there is an old man in the family and the old man is involved, it is easy for the old man and Yuesao to have conflicts because of some differences in taking care of their children. There are also some Yuesao who like to sow discord and meddle in the affairs of the host's home, resulting in a mess at home. There are a lot of people in my family. It's not disturbing to invite my sister-in-law
Economic base and family factors determine their choice. But no matter which one you choose, Baoma should make inquiries in many ways and choose qualified, reputable and professional organizationsConfinement is an important period of physical recovery. At this time, we need diet conditioning, full rest and exercise. In the past, we could only take care of ourselves at home by mother-in-law or mother. Now the confinement center has become a new choice, assisted by nurses and doctors. Many mothers will tangle, is it better to be in the center or at home? Next, the two ways of confinement are compared:
first, the advantages of confinement at home
1, economic benefits. Alipay is only required for baby procts and monthly meals. p>
2. Familiar with the environment. I have a sense of familiarity and security in my home
3. Family care. By mother-in-law or mother care, is the people around, rest assured
There are contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, husband is in the middle, mother is often wronged, and family relationship is not harmonious Most of the family space is limited, so we need to make room for mother-in-law or mother-in-law3. The dishes cooked by my mother-in-law are not suitable for my own taste and are often too greasy to eat
4. Do everything by yourself, feed in the middle of the night, change diapers and so on, often lack of sleep
Breast blocking, pain is uncomfortable, can only ask for help or blindly drink some milk soup2. Advantages of confinement in confinement center
2. The monthly meal is formulated according to everyone's constitution, which is determined by TCM doctors, analyzed by imported instruments, customized by senior nutritionists, and made by five-star cooks. It can supplement the nutrition needed by the body, and is delicious and not fat
3. Comprehensive postpartum repair project, including abdominal, leg, head, face, neck, hand care, and one-to-one postpartum yoga teacher, tailor-made yoga courses, scientific shaping ring the confinement period
There are touching, swimming, early ecation and other nursing items in baby caredisadvantages
1. The price is expensive, and the regular package cost of the child care center is from 5 million yuan
2. There are too many irregular centers in the market, so we must find regular centers
Now that the living standard has improved, postpartum mothers have higher requirements for the quality of life of their children. The traditional way of taking care of their daughter-in-law by mother-in-law has been graally eliminated. More people choose the easy way of taking care of their daughter-in-law. Is it better to invite their sister-in-law or go to the confinement center? A lot of mothers are struggling with how to choose. Jiayuebao confinement Club tells you that, of course, the confinement center is good
First, the confinement center is more concive to postpartum physical recovery jiayuebao confinement Club baby full moon party gags
the service mode of the sister-in-law's home is basically one person to take care of the postpartum mother and breast-feeding baby, one person's energy is limited, the service will inevitably not be in place. The one-to-one 24-hour special nursing service mode is adopted in the confinement center. There is a clear division of labor among the confinement meal, body repair and baby care. The independent work content will be more refined and the service will be more accurate. Mothers can rest at ease and don't worry that the baby will not be taken care of properly
Fourth, the confinement center is more concive to the establishment of a harmonious family environment.
because of the different times of life, the traditional idea of confinement is deeply rooted. It is inevitable that confinement at home will conflict with the concept of the older generation. Conflicts in the differences will affect family harmony, and the wrong methods and nursing experience will also affect the postpartum physical recovery and the healthy growth of the baby. Although not in their own home confinement, but family members can come in to visit the baby and maternal, share family happiness
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