The children of de egocentrism

1. Parents' first EQ class, the baby's cognition of the surrounding is self-learning ability, but parents' planned interaction is the best ecation at this time
please describe all kinds of emotions and emotions of the baby itself and other people in the environment with words
start from simple: happy, sad, afraid, calm, angry
then further understand the advanced emotions accurately: sadness, fear, friendly
finally, to some higher emotions: embarrassment, withdrawal, Anger, etc.
remember not to think that children are born with a lot of knowledge. The baby can judge and analyze self-learning either from family ecation or from TV and other social ecation
distraction is the best intervention method
children aged 2-3 have incomplete cognitive system, and the best way is to divert their attention when their emotions are out of control. Use other more attractive things to save the child from the boring and noisy mood
remember: don't be angry with your child, and reason with your child, it's all the performance of parents with low EQ
how to & quot; Egocentrism & quot; It is the main task of the baby at this stage
(tapping the blackboard, which is the source of future EQ)
let the child know & quot; You & quot& quot; I & quot& quot; He & quot; There are also differences between & quot; Your & quot& quot; My & quot& quot; His & quot; The difference
can start with sharing:
for example, a beautiful little sister came to the family, and the baby was very happy, and took a small apple to give to her sister.
many parents may immediately criticize their children for doing wrong or even for being selfish in the face of this situation
it's only after decades of life that I have accumulated my right and wrong ideas. How can I ask a two or three-year-old child to have the same right and wrong ideas as myself
what can we do
baby: if someone gives you an apple, do you want a big one or a small one
he replied without thinking: big
Yes, you see, you want to get a big one. Do you think Miss would like to receive a big one or a small one
he thought about it and replied, "big one
are you happy if someone gives you a little apple
the baby thinks: not happy
do you think little sister will be happy to receive the apple you gave him
the baby shakes his head thoughtfully: unhappy
do you want your little sister to be happy or unhappy
baby: I hope my little sister is happy
do you think you should give the teacher a big apple or a small one
baby: Big Apple
when I have similar conflicts, please describe the thoughts, feelings and expectations of people from different positions and angles as comprehensively as possible, so that the baby can realize that different people will have different thoughts, feelings and expectations from an early age
this kind of & quot; Decentralization & quot; Thinking training will be the foundation of EQ in the future

2. Egocentrism refers to children's thinking deficiencies e to their low level of thinking development. It means that indivials tend to know things from their own standpoint and point of view, but not from the objective and other people's standpoint and point of view. From being unable to distinguish the self from the outside world to getting rid of the dependence on action and direct perception, being able to distinguish the self from the outside world, representing other people's psychological world, and acquiring the ability of opinion selection. In the early stage of sensorimotor, the egocentrism of children's thinking is that they can't distinguish themselves from the outside world. They live in the "here and now" world completely and don't realize that there is a broader world besides their feelings. At the end of the sensorimotor stage, with the emergence of symbolic function, children can distinguish themselves from the outside world, which is a manifestation of de egocentrism. In the pre operation stage, children's egocentrism of thinking is reflected in the representation level. At this time, although children have formed a representation of things, they can't represent other people's psychological world. What they think and feel is always the same as what they think and feel, and they don't have the ability of opinion selection. After entering the specific operation stage, children's thinking is further de egocentric, which shows that they can understand things from multiple dimensions, and they can realize that different people often hold different views and attitudes towards the same thing, that is, they have the ability of opinion selection. Therefore, Piaget believes that the development of children's thinking from low level to high level is a process of de egocentrism.

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Piaget's classification of the stages of children's thinking development and the characteristics of each stage:

1. perceptual operation stage (sensorimotor stage, 0-2 years old)

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the main cognitive structure of children in this stage is perceptual motor schema, by which children can coordinate perceptual input and action response, and thus rely on action to adapt to the environment. Through this stage, children graally develop from an indivial who only has reflexive behavior to a problem solver who has a preliminary understanding of their daily life environment

2. Pre operational stage (pre operational stage, 2-7 years old)

children internalize perceptual actions into images and establish symbolic functions. They can think with psychological symbols (mainly images), thus making a qualitative leap in thinking

Concrete operations stage (concrete operations stage, 7-11 years old)

in this stage, children's cognitive structure evolves from the representation schema in the pre operation stage to the operation schema. The characteristics of concrete operational thinking are conservation, detachment and reversibility. Piaget believes that the psychological operation of this period focuses on abstract concepts, which is operational (logical), but the thinking activities need the support of specific content

In this period, children's thinking develops to the level of abstract logical reasoning. Children in the stage of formal operation can get rid of the influence of reality, pay attention to hypothetical propositions, and make logical and creative reflection on hypothetical propositions. At the same time, children can make hypothesis dective reasoning

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Jean Piaget, born on August 9, 1896, died on September 16, 1980, is a Swiss, the most famous child psychologist in modern times. His theory of cognitive development has become a model of this discipline. He has left more than 60 monographs and 500 papers for posterity. He has been to many countries to give lectures and won dozens of honorary doctorates, honorary professors and honorary academicians of science

Piaget's most important contribution to psychology is that he changed Freud's random and unsystematic clinical observation into a more scientific and systematic one, which makes great progress in clinical psychology in the future

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