Mother in law opposes going to the confinement center

1. You want to live a more comfortable life after you have a baby. The counselor can fully understand
(1) the monthly cost of a child care center is tens of thousands of yuan. I don't know what your husband's income is. Do they feel financially nervous
(2) you can only stay in the confinement center for one month, and you will return to your family after you get out of the month. The family certainly does not take care of the puerpera as much as the confinement center does. Some mothers left the center to return home, can not bear the psychological gap, there was a situation of postpartum depression
I hope you can have a good communication with your family
I wish you happiness! Wish your baby healthy and beautiful!

2. It's really annoying for children to cry. They ask them to bring it back by themselves. How can you bring it when you have to go to work? The next day, if you are in a bad mood and make a mistake, the boss will have to ask you to go home. They are afraid of spending money. In addition, after staying in the confinement center for a long time, the children are not close to you.

3. It's a big problem. I feel that if I go to the confinement center to have a baby, I will go if I have money. If I don't have money, I have no right to ask your mother-in-law to pay for it. If you want to go to the confinement center for confinement, you should consider how to save money and spend your money to go to the confinement center through your own efforts. In addition, as far as I know, the price of Nantong's confinement center is not expensive, and the cost-effective Qingyi confinement center is only 20000 or 30000 yuan, which will soon be available.

4. This is because the treatment of the confinement center is relatively good, and it can take better care of the puerpera, and make the puerpera feel very comfortable.

5. Rent your own house

6. If you don't want to go to your mother-in-law's home for confinement, you can either go to your own home for confinement or rent a house outside. In short, you can't go to your mother's home for confinement. There are taboos and sayings about this
however, it is still recommended that you go to your mother-in-law's home for confinement, because her mother-in-law takes better care of her, and it is not convenient for others to take care of her. No matter what opinions you have with your mother-in-law, you should finish the confinement first, and the rest later!

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The key to a woman's unhappiness in her mother-in-law's home is to adjust her attitude

First, to be a calm woman

a woman who is not happy is mostly because her heart is not calm enough. We all live in a very realistic society and compare with each other in the process of getting along with others. We must learn to be calm. Accept the things in life calmly. Good things and bad things don't always happen to you

In fact, we don't have to demand too much. We should treat people and things with a peaceful attitude. If we keep calm, we will also gain our own happiness