Cases of egocentrism and de egocentrism

1. Parents' first EQ class, the baby's cognition of the surrounding is self-learning ability, but parents' planned interaction is the best ecation at this time
please describe all kinds of emotions and emotions of the baby itself and other people in the environment with words
start from simple: happy, sad, afraid, calm, angry
then further understand the advanced emotions accurately: sadness, fear, friendly
finally, to some higher emotions: embarrassment, withdrawal, Anger, etc.
remember not to think that children are born with a lot of knowledge. The baby can judge and analyze self-learning either from family ecation or from TV and other social ecation
distraction is the best intervention method
children aged 2-3 have incomplete cognitive system, and the best way is to divert their attention when their emotions are out of control. Use other more attractive things to save the child from the boring and noisy mood
remember: don't be angry with your child, and reason with your child, it's all the performance of parents with low EQ
how to & quot; Egocentrism & quot; It is the main task of the baby at this stage
(tapping the blackboard, which is the source of future EQ)
let the child know & quot; You & quot& quot; I & quot& quot; He & quot; There are also differences between & quot; Your & quot& quot; My & quot& quot; His & quot; The difference
can start with sharing:
for example, a beautiful little sister came to the family, and the baby was very happy, and took a small apple to give to her sister.
many parents may immediately criticize their children for doing wrong or even for being selfish in the face of this situation
it's only after decades of life that I have accumulated my right and wrong ideas. How can I ask a two or three-year-old child to have the same right and wrong ideas as myself
what can we do
baby: if someone gives you an apple, do you want a big one or a small one
he replied without thinking: big
Yes, you see, you want to get a big one. Do you think Miss would like to receive a big one or a small one
he thought about it and replied, "big one
are you happy if someone gives you a little apple
the baby thinks: not happy
do you think little sister will be happy to receive the apple you gave him
the baby shakes his head thoughtfully: unhappy
do you want your little sister to be happy or unhappy
baby: I hope my little sister is happy
do you think you should give the teacher a big apple or a small one
baby: Big Apple
when I have similar conflicts, please describe the thoughts, feelings and expectations of people from different positions and angles as comprehensively as possible, so that the baby can realize that different people will have different thoughts, feelings and expectations from an early age
this kind of & quot; Decentralization & quot; Thinking training will be the foundation of EQ in the future

2. Egocentrism refers to children's thinking deficiencies e to their low level of thinking development. It means that indivials tend to know things from their own standpoint and point of view, but not from the objective and other people's standpoint and point of view. From being unable to distinguish the self from the outside world to getting rid of the dependence on action and direct perception, being able to distinguish the self from the outside world, representing other people's psychological world, and acquiring the ability of opinion selection. In the early stage of sensorimotor, the egocentrism of children's thinking is that they can't distinguish themselves from the outside world. They live in the "here and now" world completely and don't realize that there is a broader world besides their feelings. At the end of the sensorimotor stage, with the emergence of symbolic function, children can distinguish themselves from the outside world, which is a manifestation of de egocentrism. In the pre operation stage, children's egocentrism of thinking is reflected in the representation level. At this time, although children have formed a representation of things, they can't represent other people's psychological world. What they think and feel is always the same as what they think and feel, and they don't have the ability of opinion selection. After entering the specific operation stage, children's thinking is further de egocentric, which shows that they can understand things from multiple dimensions, and they can realize that different people often hold different views and attitudes towards the same thing, that is, they have the ability of opinion selection. Therefore, Piaget believes that the development of children's thinking from low level to high level is a process of de egocentrism.

3. Self attention should be developed in Bijie, a primary stage of thinking development.

4. The former is self-centered and belongs to male chauvinism
but it doesn't mean that they don't care about others
they just hope that others will be led by their own consciousness
the latter is dominated by self-interest at the expense of others
selfishness
they are two completely different concepts
I hope they can help you

5. How did the famous people of ancient and modern times become famous& quot; It is said that in the first year of King Zhou, King Zhuang of Chu overcame the rebellion and won a complete victory. He invited all the generals and officials to celebrate the victory, and asked his beautiful concubine Xu Ji to propose a toast. A gust of wind blows out all the lights. In the dark, a man pulls Xu Ji's sleeve to flirt. Xu Ji doesn't follow and pulls his hat. When Xu Ji told the king of Zhuang about this, she asked the king of Zhuang to immediately order to find out the person who didn't have tassels on his hat. After hearing this, King Zhuang laughed and immediately said: please remove the cap tassels of all the officials, and then order to light the lamp. In this way, it is impossible to tell who is the one who has misbehaved. Xu Ji didn't know what she meant. King Zhuang explained that drunken mania is common among people. If the punishment is given, it will hurt the hearts of the Chinese people and make all officials leave unhappily. Therefore, it can't be done. Xu Ji was impressed. Later, in the war of Wu soldiers attacking Chu, a man fought bravely to defend Chu. King Zhuang asked him why he was so brave. He replied, "I am the one who has no tassels in the hall."< In order to appreciate Liu Bei's kindness, Zhuge Liang went out of Qishan several times and died.
3 "Feng Yuan bought justice for mengchang Jun" Feng Yuan's treatment improved continuously and mengchang Jun treated him very well, In order to thank mengchang Jun, Feng Yuan took the initiative to collect debts for mengchang Jun. the process of Feng Yuan's going to Xuedi to burn bonds and collect debts for mengchang Jun was actually to buy people's support for mengchang Jun. finally, mengchang Jun was dismissed by the king of Qi. When he returned to Xuedi, he finally realized the truth of Feng Yuan's burning bonds and collecting debts for mengchang Jun
4 the well-known story of "asking for mercy" has been passed down through the ages e to gratitude

6. 1. The purpose of emphasizing less use of "I" in interview is to avoid the wrong self-centered guide to the interviewer
2. One of the major reasons for the Qing Dynasty's demise was that it was closed, arrogant, self-centered and not communicating with the outside world
3. Buddhist good advice: the greatest sorrow in life is that you can't see yourself clearly, that you are self-centered, that you are too persistent, and that you are lost in self prejudice. If you don't have the mentality of going along with the fate and ask for everything you want, then no environment can satisfy you. Only by straightening the body and mind, using wisdom to resolve the obstacles in the heart, and removing persistent prejudice and delusion of separation, all the troubles will come to an end
4. Fable the selfish giant, emphasizing that selfishness (which can be understood as being too self-centered) will lead to tragedy in life. Specific stories can be searched
5. You should know that you should always be happy to give more to others and take less from others - Gorky
6. The rich second generation is called a social moth, partly because they are too self-centered and don't know how to give and help
7. Yao Jiaxin didn't admit his mistake in killing people, his parents doted on him, and he didn't have the idea of killing people to pay for his life in his heart, which shows that his inner self-centered degree is very serious, which leads to the lack of moral values and the loss of values
8. From many psychological studies, we can see that & quot; Self & quot; The self-centered personality will make people compare themselves with others frequently, which will lead to the decline of their happiness index
9. http://news.sina.com.cn/o/2006-09-11/07579987514s.shtml

7. Fox and goat in the well
a fox falls into the well. No matter how hard he struggles, he still can't climb up, so he has to stay there. The male goat felt thirsty. When he came to the well and saw the fox in the well, he asked him if the well water was good? The fox felt that the opportunity was coming, and he was very happy. He immediately calmed down and praised the well water. He said that the water was the best spring in the world, and it was sweet and refreshing. He advised the goat to come down and drink with him. The goat, who only wanted to drink water and believed it to be true, jumped down without thinking. When he finished drinking, he had to discuss with the fox how to go to the well. The fox had been ready for a long time. He said cunningly, "I have a
method. You put your front foot on the wall of the well, and then erect the corner. I'll jump up the well from your back, and then pull you up, and we'll all be saved The goat agreed to his proposal. The fox stepped on his hind foot and jumped on his back. Then he jumped from the corner and out of the well. After the fox went up, he was ready to run away alone. The goat accused the fox of breaking his promise. The fox looked back and said to the goat, "Hey, friend, if your mind is as perfect as your beard, you won't jump blindly before you see the exit
this story shows that smart people should think about the outcome of things before they do it.

8. The strength of children's egocentrism can be written through your own observation and data analysis.

9.

1. Egocentrism in psychology is children's self-centered mental state and behavior tendency in the process of intelligent development

egocentrism is a concept put forward by Swiss psychologist Piaget

Piaget believes that there is a qualitative difference between the thinking of young children and alts. They can't distinguish themselves from objective things, and project their own attributes on external things. They think that sun, moon, mountain and river all have life and will. They can't distinguish their own feelings from the situation of others. If they think the soup in their own bowl is hot, they think the soup in others' bowl is also hot

the process of children's growth is a process of "decentralization", graally realizing the difference between self and external things, the difference between self and others. Graally pay attention to the feelings and wishes of others in interpersonal communication

Due to the lack of family and social ecation and the lack of personal self perception, some alts' way of thinking is still self-centered

There is a fundamental difference between egocentrism in psychology and indivialism and egoism in ethics

please refer to the entry of "egocentrism" in psychology volume of "complete book of China's Internet", written by Lu Jun

2. Ethical egocentrism

egocentrism is alts' self-centered psychological state and behavior tendency in interpersonal relationship. The specific performance is as follows:

1. Including the heart of a villain and the belly of a gentleman; Also includes the heart of a gentleman, Du villain's belly

(2) impose what you want on others. It includes good intentions and bad deeds; It also includes bad intentions and bad deeds“ "Don't do to others what you don't want to do to yourself" is a moral principle advocated by Confucius, which is reasonable“ It is a wrong principle to deal with interpersonal relationship, which is harmful

It can be seen that egocentrism is not all indivialism and egoism, but some of the ways of thinking and behavior belong to indivialism and egoism

in a word, psychological egocentrism can be naturally dispelled in life; The egocentrism in ethics can only be overcome by enhancing the cognitive ability and improving the moral level