De egocentrization of cognitive development theory
please describe all kinds of emotions and emotions of the baby itself and other people in the environment with words
start from simple: happy, sad, afraid, calm, angry
then further understand the advanced emotions accurately: sadness, fear, friendly
finally, to some higher emotions: embarrassment, withdrawal, Anger, etc.
remember not to think that children are born with a lot of knowledge. The baby can judge and analyze self-learning either from family ecation or from TV and other social ecation
distraction is the best intervention method
children aged 2-3 have incomplete cognitive system, and the best way is to divert their attention when their emotions are out of control. Use other more attractive things to save the child from the boring and noisy mood
remember: don't be angry with your child, and reason with your child, it's all the performance of parents with low EQ
how to & quot; Egocentrism & quot; It is the main task of the baby at this stage
(tapping the blackboard, which is the source of future EQ)
let the child know & quot; You & quot& quot; I & quot& quot; He & quot; There are also differences between & quot; Your & quot& quot; My & quot& quot; His & quot; The difference
can start with sharing:
for example, a beautiful little sister came to the family, and the baby was very happy, and took a small apple to give to her sister.
many parents may immediately criticize their children for doing wrong or even for being selfish in the face of this situation
it's only after decades of life that I have accumulated my right and wrong ideas. How can I ask a two or three-year-old child to have the same right and wrong ideas as myself
what can we do
baby: if someone gives you an apple, do you want a big one or a small one
he replied without thinking: big
Yes, you see, you want to get a big one. Do you think Miss would like to receive a big one or a small one
he thought about it and replied, "big one
are you happy if someone gives you a little apple
the baby thinks: not happy
do you think little sister will be happy to receive the apple you gave him
the baby shakes his head thoughtfully: unhappy
do you want your little sister to be happy or unhappy
baby: I hope my little sister is happy
do you think you should give the teacher a big apple or a small one
baby: Big Apple
when I have similar conflicts, please describe the thoughts, feelings and expectations of people from different positions and angles as comprehensively as possible, so that the baby can realize that different people will have different thoughts, feelings and expectations from an early age
this kind of & quot; Decentralization & quot; Thinking training will be the foundation of EQ in the future
the first stage is sensory motor stage. From birth to about 2 years old. This stage of children can only rely on their own muscle movements and feelings to deal with external things. This stage is further divided into six stages: ① from birth to one month. At this time, the baby is not aware of the things around, or even their own existence, can not distinguish between things and me, lack of self-awareness. ② 1-4 months. At this time, the baby's movements become more coordinated, but still can not play with foreign objects. ③ 4-10 months. At this point, the baby's vision and grasping movements are coordinated. I started fiddling with things around me. Infants aged 9 to 10 months know that things are still out of their sight. ④ 10-12 months. At this point, the behavior has a purpose, and the effect of the behavior can be expected. ⑤ 12-18 months. The baby will make slightly different movements to different objects to see what the results will be. ⑥ 18-24 months. Before acting, babies can think about actions in their minds and find new ways to solve problems
the second stage is the pre operation stage. About 2-7 years old. In this period, children can only think by appearance, their thinking is superficial, primitive and chaotic. The pre operation stage can be divided into two stages: (1) pre concept stage, about 2-4 years old. This period is characterized by the appearance of symbolic function and imitation. ② Intuitive thinking period, about 4-7 years old. Children mainly reflect on the surface phenomenon of things, only push from one special situation to another, and say irrelevant things have causality. Egocentrism is the prominent feature of this stage
the third stage is the concrete operation stage. About 7-11 years old, in this stage, children formed a preliminary structure of operation, appeared logical thinking. However, thinking is also directly related to specific things, cannot do without specific experience, and lacks the ability of generalization. Abstract reasoning has not yet developed, and can not carry out propositional operation. At this stage, children developed "decentralization", that is, the self-centered idea of only looking at problems from their own point of view graally disappeared. At this time, children can not only focus on one aspect of the situation or problem, but also pay attention to several aspects; We can not only pay attention to the static state of things, but also see the dynamic change; It can also reverse the direction of thinking
the fourth stage is the formal operation stage. From about 11 to 12 years old, to this stage, the indivial has formed a complete cognitive structure system, can carry out formal propositional thinking, and the intellectual development tends to be mature. Piaget initially thought that the intellectual development of formal operation was completed at about 15 years old. Later, in 1972, the original view was revised, that normal people should reach the stage of formal operation no later than 15-20 years old.
2. Pre operation stage (2-7 years old). At this time, the child has not yet established the real logical operation ability, can only learn the preliminary metaphysical cognition, so it often shows the self-centered way of thinking. Piaget's "three mountains experiment" is to verify the characteristics of self cognition in this stage
3. Specific operation stage (7-12 years old). At this time, children began to establish specific logical thinking ability, and began to learn to analyze things rationally. But we can't think logically out of the physical objects completely, so the thinking at this time is more abstract than image thinking. This is also the reason why primary school teachers often need to give examples in kind in class, and their examination questions are often applied
4. Formal operation stage (over 12 years old). At this time, children began to learn abstract operations, and they could do logical thinking without physical objects. They learned to enter the thinking mode of alts. However, there are many people who can not enter the stage of formal operation in their life, but can only stay in the stage of concrete thinking, which is often manifested in the lack of logical reasoning ability and spatial imagination ability. According to gender differences, psychological research tends to be mostly female
it should be noted that Piaget's cognitive development theory is a longitudinal description of human cognitive development process from the perspective of developmental psychology. However, to really understand the essence of Geneva School, we need to combine it with his other horizontal cognitive theory "genetic epistemology" to understand Piaget's point of view.
Piaget believes that cognitive development is a process of construction, which is realized in the interaction between indivial and environment, thus showing four stages in the same order. Each stage has its main behavior pattern. Among them, each stage is a unified whole. Piaget puts forward the theory of cognitive development, and divides indivial cognitive development into the following four stages< br />
In the pre operation stage (2-7 years old)
on the issue of cognitive development, Piaget thinks that cognitive development is a process of construction, which is realized in the interaction between the indivial and the environment, thus showing four stages in constant order. Each stage has its main behavior pattern. Among them, each stage is a unified whole. Piaget puts forward the theory of cognitive development, and divides indivial cognitive development into the following four stages< br />
belongs to Piaget's cognitive development theory of
pre operation stage, achievement
1, animism, that all life
2, thinking is irreversible
3, self-centered
4, thinking is rigid
defect: children have not yet acquired the concept of conservation of matter.