Mother in law beat daughter-in-law not to go to the confinement

1. You want to live a more comfortable life after you have a baby. The counselor can fully understand
(1) the monthly cost of a child care center is tens of thousands of yuan. I don't know what your husband's income is. Do they feel financially nervous
(2) you can only stay in the confinement center for one month, and you will return to your family after you get out of the month. The family certainly does not take care of the puerpera as much as the confinement center does. Some mothers left the center to return home, can not bear the psychological gap, there was a situation of postpartum depression
I hope you can have a good communication with your family
I wish you happiness! Wish your baby healthy and beautiful!

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it's the same routine as the pig plate. The man uses his appearance and rich & quot; Experience & quot;, The gentle and considerate attitude makes the woman fall in love, gives her a little sweetheart, enhances her trust in his investment ability, and finally swindles her out of a lot of money. If you can't make investment and can't understand investment, remember that someone makes you feel that you understand it. If you invest with your money, you can stop doing business. There is no free lunch in the world, free is often the most expensive; The risk is directly proportional to the income. We must not expect a good thing

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Chenchen's husband said that he wanted to take his 65 year old mother from his hometown to provide for the aged. Chenchen heard that there was no problem. After all, it's not easy for a rural old lady to raise a college student. It's good to know how to be grateful. However, followed by a word of Chenchen, let her mother-in-law and husband on the spot

"it's OK to provide for the aged, but I have to go to a nursing home. I have no time and no obligation to serve her!" In Chenchen's opinion, the husband's ty is to support her mother. However, if he has not enjoyed the care of her mother-in-law for one day, he has no responsibility to solve the problem of supporting her in her old age. Seeing his wife so unreasonable, her husband accused Chenchen of inhumanity

Third, how to alleviate the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law war caused by confinement

1, mutual understanding and mutual concession

in any case, the daughter-in-law is willing to give birth to children for her husband's family, so the mother-in-law should be more considerate of the daughter-in-law's difficulties. Usually take more care of the daughter-in-law, more forbearance, after all, the mother in the month of birth is weak, should avoid more quarrels. Even if there is a big contradiction between the two sides, the problem should be handed over to the husband to solve, which can not only solve the problem quickly, but also avoid the aggravation of the contradiction

The daughter-in-law and mother-in-law are strangers who know each other half the way, so it is impossible to get along with each other like a mother and daughter. Therefore, when conflicts occur, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law should sit down and take the initiative to communicate, discuss their own shortcomings and future changes, so that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will become better and better

3. Think from each other's point of view

both mother-in-law and daughter-in-law should think more about each other ring the confinement, such as what the daughter-in-law wants to eat, whether the mother-in-law is tired after taking the child for a day, etc. To know that people are meat long, only you treat others with sincerity, others will treat you in the same way. Therefore, when the problem occurs, don't rush to quarrel, try to stand in the other side's position to think about the problem, is also a good way to solve the contradiction

4. This is to start from the source. Why does the daughter-in-law beat her mother-in-law just after giving birth to the baby before she recovers? There must be a reason. Maybe there's a knot in one's heart that hasn't been solved. The daughter-in-law is too much and has knocked out her mother-in-law. It's right for the daughter-in-law to go to her mother's home for confinement. If she doesn't go away, she will have to die. It's the same with who is called to appear. However, it is not a month before the man will go over and ask the children. It seems that the family has the final say. The husband has no say. His mother will not let her son go to see him. His son will not dare to go. If this happens, he will still be happy and will not be happy in the future.

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When are women most vulnerable? Obviously, after the birth

at that time, women's physical and mental changes, whether internal hormone secretion or external changes, all need women to have strong adaptability

Chinese people pay attention to confinement, one is to hope that the puerpera can recover well, the other is to have enough breast milk for their children. Based on these two considerations, most families will improve their diet, living environment and other aspects ring this period

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When are women most vulnerable? Obviously, after the birth

at that time, women's physical and mental changes, whether internal hormone secretion or external changes, all need women to have strong adaptability

Chinese people pay attention to confinement, one is to hope that the puerpera can recover well, the other is to have enough breast milk for their children. Based on these two considerations, most families will improve their diet, living environment and other aspects ring this period

from a personal point of view, Zhou Qing is right. Sometimes the elderly may have a good starting point, but they can't keep up with the changes of the times

they don't understand that they should spend money to solve things that could have been solved. Don't make conflicts in order to save a few money. Everyone is not happy

To tell you the truth, I have always advised the elderly not to care too much about the lives of the young people, especially their mother-in-law, not to care too much about the lifestyle of their daughter-in-law. The young people should be allowed to deal with such extremely personal matters as confinement

instead of blocking each other with old ideas

8000 yuan of confinement club seems expensive, but this money can ease family conflicts, so as to avoid a feud and a lifetime of resentment. Do you think this money is not worth it

7. Because there is a big age difference between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and their ideas and lifestyle are different, they are afraid of conflicts.

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My mother-in-law asked me to wait on my sister-in-law. When she was refused, she slapped me in the face. Was it right for me to refuse? It's an inch to refuse directly. I support you very well. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the most difficult, and the relationship between mother-in-law and son-in-law is also the most difficult. To put it bluntly, sister-in-law has no relationship with you. It's also mother-in-law to serve

the most delicate woman is the one who has been in confinement. If she is not careful, she will get sick ring confinement, and her children have to get up a lot at night. If she is too busy, she will peel off her skin. You can have a try and feel that your mother-in-law is a bit unreasonable. She just looks down on you. If she can say this, she will be drunk, to save money or to pick things up, This month's revenge can be remembered for a lifetime. You are not a person inside and outside. Frankly speaking, you have no relationship with your sister-in-law, and your mother-in-law is also there to serve you. You can't get close to anything. In the eyes of many mother-in-law, many things should be done when they don't go to work. Just like my mother-in-law, my sister-in-law is at work. When she comes back from work, she can sleep until she wakes up naturally and doesn't do housework. My mother-in-law often cleans my sister-in-law's house so that she doesn't dye it. In my family, I've never seen her sweep it. She often praises my sister-in-law for making money and criticizing my whole body. Ah! In her eyes, lack of money is a weakness

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How to get along with each other between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is really an eternal problem. Even today's young people are very resistant and afraid to deal with this relationship. But the main mother-in-law has to face these relationships sooner or later, and even if there are many ways to tell you how to do it, but if you want to really use it, you still need to find the right way

as a daughter-in-law, although she was wronged, it was her own fault. She listened and did the same, but later found that when her husband wanted to help her with the housework, her mother-in-law stopped her husband, saying that she should do it. Because of this, their relationship became more and more tense. By the time Xixi got pregnant, her relationship had deteriorated to a certain extent. Her mother-in-law often quarreled with her, so that her mother-in-law and grandson, who had a lot of opinions about her daughter-in-law, didn't take care of her when they were born. Similarly angry, Xixi said that she would never serve her mother-in-law in the future, but because there was really no one to take care of Xixi, she asked Yuesao to take care of herself, but she didn't expect that it was very expensive, but there was no way. But after her mother-in-law knew about it, she angrily called Xixi a black sheep and said she was wasting her husband's money. Originally, Xixi was very angry with her mother-in-law. She was not convinced that her mother-in-law criticized her like this. In this way, the relationship between the two people is even worse. In fact, we can't say who is right or who is wrong in this matter, but in the end, it is the family's tolerance and respect that is the way to get along< br />

10. My mother-in-law didn't take care of my baby. I invited my sister-in-law. She came to make a big fuss: is it easy for my son to earn some money< p> My husband and I have known each other for many years. We have been at school since we were young. No one liked each other for three years. I didn't expect to be together again after work. Because the two families are in the same city, from our love to our marriage, we come together, with the wind and the water

this person is very kind, and no one in the neighborhood said she was bad. In the same way, she was very kind to me. My mother-in-law's family is not well-off, and my marriage partner bought them with two down payment loans. But I really think it's better to marry a happy family than anything else

I'm really angry. I didn't say that to my mother-in-law. I didn't hit her. My mother-in-law left angrily and threatened never to come into our house again. In the evening, my mother-in-law called her husband in a strong voice and said, "give me the money you gave to my sister-in-law, and I'll go to serve her after delivery.". The husband refused without even thinking about it

Why does grandma do such a thing? Is it not worth having a baby? Is my daughter a sinner in my family? After this, my heart and mother-in-law had a deep estrangement. She won't make my daughter look better in the future. I don't think I'll ever meet her in my life

what I want to say is, how old are the patriarchal mothers? What about you