The mother forbade her daughter to go to the confinement center

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2. No, it's just that mothers who give birth naturally are more likely to recover than those who give birth by caesarean section
every family has its own special circumstances. Many mothers who want to be taken care of ring their confinement don't want to get along with their mother-in-law, so they want to invite their sister-in-law. This is understandable
if you can ask your mother to help, this is the most convenient, because after all, your mother is the closest to you. You can tell your mother anything. If your mother really can't take care of you, you can consider hiring a nanny to do all the housework at home, cook the meal according to your requirements, and then take care of your children yourself. This is also better
of course, it is necessary to have a sister-in-law if the family supports it and the financial conditions are available, especially for those who are not taken care of at home and are relatively weak, and need to take good care of themselves ring the period of confinement. But it needs to be clear that Yuesao only takes care of the puerpera and the baby. Yuesao does not do housework and does not do meals for other family members.

3. It costs about 8000 yuan a month

in fact, the cost here is not particularly much

because different requirements lead to different rewards

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Our culture tends to deify mothers, to give them life, to take care of them, to be gentle and loving wherever and whenever they are. In fact, if you think about it carefully, it's not hard to find that those mothers who watched their children running in the park might have been able to drink a row of beer in a nightclub three years ago, or cross the northwest line alone with their travel bags

reshape oneself and become a model mother

everyone who becomes a mother should eventually become a new self. Instead of going back to the state before becoming a mother, or always in compromise or confusion. The latter two states of the mother, will proce a lot of parent-child problems: control, no sense of distance, love to complain, feel that they pay too much

my best friend's mother is a very "selfish" person. When her best friend gave birth to a baby, she didn't wait for the confinement, but suggested that her daughter go to the confinement center. When her best friend's mother-in-law was ill, she did not take care of the children for her best friend, because she still had her own career after retirement, that is, to be an anchor of the elderly program. However, when talking about her mother, her best friend said that if she had to thank her a little, she would thank her "self"“ My mother will never give up her own business for me. She took the TVU exam ring her maternity leave. When I was in primary school, she taught herself accounting by doing my homework. At the end of the semester, she took the accounting certificate. She and I scrambled for game machines and delicious food. But because of her example, I didn't abandon myself because of being a mother. "

those mothers who are regarded as "irresponsible" because of "self pursuit" happen to set a very good example. A daughter will learn from her that being a mother can also have her own self. The son will learn that when a woman becomes a mother, she should not become a child care machine. She should give up her ideal to be a good wife and mother and become a good husband who can provide assistance

5. It's worrying. You need to make your parents feel at ease with you, and think about how to make them feel at ease with you. For example, even if you go out to play, you need to inform your family of your own situation, go home in time at night, and so on. You can also make an appointment with a friend at home, so that parents can know more about their friends, and so on,

6. The mother can take care of her daughter in confinement. There are some very private things in confinement. It won't be so embarrassing for her mother to help

7. According to the traditional cognition of many people, there are two reasons why women can't "sit in the confinement" in their mother's home:

1. When a woman just gives birth and her body is still bleeding, it will be considered unlucky and harmful to her mother's family. Therefore, there is a saying in some places that "a drop of blood in her mother's home will make half the street poor"

2. Having a baby in your mother's home can bring bad luck to your mother's family, especially if you have brothers in your mother's home. Therefore, for the sake of the safety of their parents, many people do not go back to their mother's home for confinement

of course, with the changes of the times, many people no longer believe these superstitious views, but in fact, after a woman has given birth, it's better not to do confinement at her mother's home. In fact, the reason is very realistic

first, the inconvenient way is "the water splashed by the married daughter". When a daughter gets married, she is no longer the permanent resident of the family, but has her own home. Just after the proction, the body is extremely weak, whether from the psychological or material needs, in their own home is the most comfortable and convenient. If you go back to your mother's home, you will run back and forth to get the materials because of the lack of this and that. It's very troublesome

Second, the husband's feelings. After a daughter has given birth, she usually needs her husband's considerate care. In this period, whether it is her mother-in-law or her own mother, there will be a lot of inconvenience. If you are in your mother's home, your husband will feel very uncomfortable. After all, your son-in-law will feel like visiting relatives in his mother-in-law's home. It's better to be relaxed and comfortable in his own home

thirdly, if there are brothers in the family, it is easy to cause family conflicts. A family that was once peaceful, because of your intervention and the need to take good care of it, coupled with the children's crying from time to time, will make the family's life no longer calm

if the sister-in-law or sister-in-law is dissatisfied and makes some conflicts, it will destroy the originally good kinship. After all, the sister-in-law or sister-in-law has a certain position in the family, and her attitude will directly affect whether you are comfortable in this home. If you are angry, it will definitely hurt your body, which is extremely unfavorable for postpartum recovery< Fourthly, it affects the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Some people say that a confinement can test the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. In fact, the real relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law begins with confinement

from the standpoint of the mother-in-law's family, a daughter-in-law's entrance is her own family. It's not a trivial matter to have a baby and sit in the confinement, so it should be arranged by the mother-in-law's family. The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can also take this opportunity to get along well. If the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law insist on participating, it will only lead to estrangement between the two families. The mother-in-law felt that her daughter-in-law intended to alienate herself, while her family felt that her mother-in-law was not willing to take care of her daughter.

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"My mother is not a free nanny, why do you wait for her to have a baby?" no matter which man's mouth, no matter who it's aimed at, you don't have to doubt that this must be an asshole. Even if he is angry, he is also irrational and extremely selfish, and can not deal with family relations

Conclusion: so everyone should put their own place, and this kind of family contradiction will be solved clearly. In addition, three outlooks are also very important. For a pregnant woman, the responsibility to take care of her should be her husband, not any one of the older generation

9. Everyone has self-esteem. You can review whether you often do wrong things. If you fight without any reason, you can reason with him. If you can't, you can find other relatives to help mediate. If you can't, you can solve it by legal means. After all, the mother has infringed the law and committed a crime. There are still a few parents who don't love their children