Decentralized thinking
please describe all kinds of emotions and emotions of the baby itself and other people in the environment with words
start from simple: happy, sad, afraid, calm, angry
then further understand the advanced emotions accurately: sadness, fear, friendly
finally, to some higher emotions: embarrassment, withdrawal, Anger, etc.
remember not to think that children are born with a lot of knowledge. The baby can judge and analyze self-learning either from family ecation or from TV and other social ecation
distraction is the best intervention method
children aged 2-3 have incomplete cognitive system, and the best way is to divert their attention when their emotions are out of control. Use other more attractive things to save the child from the boring and noisy mood
remember: don't be angry with your child, and reason with your child, it's all the performance of parents with low EQ
how to & quot; Egocentrism & quot; It is the main task of the baby at this stage
(tapping the blackboard, which is the source of future EQ)
let the child know & quot; You & quot& quot; I & quot& quot; He & quot; There are also differences between & quot; Your & quot& quot; My & quot& quot; His & quot; The difference
can start with sharing:
for example, a beautiful little sister came to the family, and the baby was very happy, and took a small apple to give to her sister.
many parents may immediately criticize their children for doing wrong or even for being selfish in the face of this situation
it's only after decades of life that I have accumulated my right and wrong ideas. How can I ask a two or three-year-old child to have the same right and wrong ideas as myself
what can we do
baby: if someone gives you an apple, do you want a big one or a small one
he replied without thinking: big
Yes, you see, you want to get a big one. Do you think Miss would like to receive a big one or a small one
he thought about it and replied, "big one
are you happy if someone gives you a little apple
the baby thinks: not happy
do you think little sister will be happy to receive the apple you gave him
the baby shakes his head thoughtfully: unhappy
do you want your little sister to be happy or unhappy
baby: I hope my little sister is happy
do you think you should give the teacher a big apple or a small one
baby: Big Apple
when I have similar conflicts, please describe the thoughts, feelings and expectations of people from different positions and angles as comprehensively as possible, so that the baby can realize that different people will have different thoughts, feelings and expectations from an early age
this kind of & quot; Decentralization & quot; Thinking training will be the foundation of EQ in the future
please focus on the bold part:
Internet thinking, in the mobile Internet plus big data, cloud computing and other technology development background, the market, users, procts, enterprise value chain and even the whole business ecosystem to reconsider the way of thinking. P>
first put forward the Internet thinking is the founder of network company Robin Li. In a large-scale activity on the Internet, Robin Li first discussed the word "Internet thinking" when Robin Li explored the development issues with the boss and entrepreneur of traditional instries. He said that we entrepreneurs should have Internet thinking in the future. Maybe what you do is not Internet, but your way of thinking should graally think from the perspective of Internet. Now a few years later, this concept has been graally recognized by more and more entrepreneurs, even people from all walks of life and fields outside the enterprise. But the word "Internet thinking" has evolved into a number of different interpretations
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the way of thinking in the Internet era is not limited to Internet procts and Internet enterprises. The Internet here refers not only to desktop Internet or mobile Internet, but also pan Internet, because the future network form must span all kinds of terminal devices, such as desktop, notebook, tablet, mobile phone, watch, glasses, etc. Internet thinking is to rece the dimension, let the Internet instry take the initiative to integrate the real instry
How does Internet thinking come into being? Proctivity determines the relationship of proction. To a certain extent, the technical characteristics of the Internet will affect its logic at the commercial level. The unit of instrial society is tangible atom, while the basic medium of Internet world is intangible bit. This means that economics in the era of instrial civilization is a kind of scarcity economics, while economics in the era of Internet is a kind of abundance economics. According to Moore's law and other theories, the three basic elements of the Internet bandwidth, storage and server will be unlimited free. In the Internet economy, monopoly of proction, sales and communication will no longer be possible Moreover, a network Internet has no central node, it is not a hierarchical structure. Although different points have different weights, no point is absolutely authoritative. So the technical structure of the Internet determines its inner spirit, which is decentralized, distributed and equal. Equality is a very important basic principle of the Internet
in a network society, the value of an "indivial" and an "enterprise" is determined by the breadth and thickness of the connecting point. The wider and thicker your connection, the greater your value. This is also the basic feature of the pure information society. Your information content determines your value. So opening becomes a necessary means of survival. If you don't open up, you can't get more connections
Therefore, the Internet business model must be built on the basis of equality and openness, and Internet thinking must reflect the characteristics of equality and openness. Equality and openness mean democracy and humanization. In this sense, the Internet economy is a real people-oriented economy < UL >
in the era of agricultural civilization, the most important assets are land and farmers. In the instrial era, the most important assets are capital, machinery (machinery is solidified capital) and alienated people on the assembly line. In the early instrial age, the most important consideration was the alienated man, because man was also treated as a machine. People are just screws in the assembly line
in the era of knowledge economy, the core resources are data and knowledge workers, which Drucker said at the end of last century. Enterprise management will also move from the traditional multi-level to a more flat, more network, more ecological way. Let knowledgeworker truly create value and become the most important and needed breakthrough place for any organization and the whole society
The core and essence of decentralization is actually the way of information dissemination and acquisition. Information (here refers to information in a broad sense, including all kinds of content that users can see, including news, goods, notices, announcements, etc.) is spread in two ways: centralization and socialization. The "decentralization" of wechat expected by Zhang Xiaolong is to spread (obtain) information through more social ways, spread through user relations in social networks, and allow users to spread or obtain information without centralized traffic entrance
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in a word, decentralization is not separated from the platform, it does not rely on the platform diversion, it is only the acquaintance around you, it is called decentralization, the real decentralization is to rely on the social network, so that the information of businesses and commodities can be spread more widely, and more traffic sources can be obtained, not just the centralized platform diversion < br />
but the real decentralization needs to meet a condition, which is to have a central idea. An organization system without a central idea can not be sticky. Of course, it can not be decentralized
in a stable organizational system, only decentralization can achieve the goal of not taking one person as the core. The core team composed of many people also needs to have a positive thinking to balance the relationship between them
in this organizational system, the only direction of all people, if they can make this organizational system survive long enough, is the common value of all people
therefore, in the building of the overall energy field of tribal economy, only decentralization can realize the system of governing by doing nothing. In real life, decentralization is not a concept, but only decentralization can realize the presentation of the system of governing by doing nothing in the building of organizational teams
of course, a set of natural mechanism of governance by inaction is also involved here. If it is carried out too carefully, it will take a long time to explain that in the decentralized system of governance by inaction, everyone can achieve the double harvest of material and spirit, which is not carried out one by one here.
David Su, founder of Columbus cat project and core developer. Geek genius, Hefei University of technology, postgraate suspension, blockchain bottom developer, participation in Neo HPB and other community development work
