My mother doesn't agree to go to the confinement center
Publish: 2021-04-13 08:07:51
1. Hello, your mother doesn't agree with your wife to go to the confinement center. Is this paid by your mother? Or your wife or you two? If your mother pays, I think you still have to persuade your mother, because giving birth to a child may be once in a lifetime, so I think since she wants to go so much, she still wants to go, and don't have conflicts behind her. In this way, even if there are conflicts, it may be better. You can persuade your mother
2. You want to live a more comfortable life after you have a baby. The counselor can fully understand
(1) the monthly cost of a child care center is tens of thousands of yuan. I don't know what your husband's income is. Do they feel financially nervous
(2) you can only stay in the confinement center for one month, and you will return to your family after you get out of the month. The family certainly does not take care of the puerpera as much as the confinement center does. Some mothers left the center to return home, can not bear the psychological gap, there was a situation of postpartum depression
I hope you can have a good communication with your family
I wish you happiness! Wish your baby healthy and beautiful!
(1) the monthly cost of a child care center is tens of thousands of yuan. I don't know what your husband's income is. Do they feel financially nervous
(2) you can only stay in the confinement center for one month, and you will return to your family after you get out of the month. The family certainly does not take care of the puerpera as much as the confinement center does. Some mothers left the center to return home, can not bear the psychological gap, there was a situation of postpartum depression
I hope you can have a good communication with your family
I wish you happiness! Wish your baby healthy and beautiful!
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it's not a problem to be a month old as long as you are willing to spend money to ask your sister-in-law to take care of her sister or let her go to the month care center 1. If your sister is in financial difficulties, you can ask for a monthly sister-in-law, and the monthly sister-in-law fee can be paid by you< p> Although they are brothers and sisters, they are all alts and have their own lives. My sister must think of her own way to take confinement. What's the matter with coming to your home. One more baby at home, it will be very inconvenient. Don't expect your wife to take care of your sister. Your wife doesn't owe you anything
So I think it's right for my sister to come to your home for confinement, but my wife doesn't agree. As a brother, I can't bear to let your mother go to the place where my sister lives to take care of the confinement. There are many ways. The worst way is to take my sister home to take care of the confinement. It's not only my sister's confinement is not good, but also the relationship between husband and wife is very stiff4. A woman should give birth to a child at her own home. Her husband and mother-in-law can help her. She can also go directly to her mother-in-law's home for confinement. If there are special circumstances, she can go back to her mother-in-law's home for her parents to take care of, but it's better not to go to her brother's home. No matter how close her family is, she should have a sense of boundaries.
5. With the change of ideas, more and more people choose to go to the confinement center for confinement. At home, there are traditional and modern differences between mothers and parents in taking care of their babies. It is inevitable that big and small conflicts will occur. Now, with the improvement of living conditions, many people choose the confinement center, which can not only make pregnant women have a good rest, Let pregnant women and babies get scientific care, can also ease the contradiction of the family. Kill two birds with one stone
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6. It's really annoying for children to cry. They ask them to bring it back by themselves. How can you bring it when you have to go to work? The next day, if you are in a bad mood and make a mistake, the boss will have to ask you to go home. They are afraid of spending money. In addition, after staying in the confinement center for a long time, the children are not close to you.
7. When I was born, I didn't know whether my mother could come or not. We were far apart. If I came, my business brother couldn't take care of it alone. It would take two or three days to get on the bus. My mother said business is not busy, she will try to come, if really can't come, I also understand, husband and mother-in-law said, really can't come even. My mother is carsick again. It will take several days to get over by car.
8. It's OK to do it at home instead of going to the confinement center.
it's not a small sum of money to go to the special confinement center.
there are more places to spend money with children.
I don't think it's necessary to spend any money.
you have to be considerate of your husband. He's still under a lot of pressure
it's not a small sum of money to go to the special confinement center.
there are more places to spend money with children.
I don't think it's necessary to spend any money.
you have to be considerate of your husband. He's still under a lot of pressure
9. Yes, of course
it didn't say that my mother couldn't come
if you want to
you can take care of them,
it didn't say that my mother couldn't come
if you want to
you can take care of them,
10. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is really difficult. In fact, the status of mother-in-law is not as high as before. Even in some families, daughter-in-law is very difficult. This is more because people's thoughts have changed
1. Now the status of women has been improved
it turns out that more women may be housewives at home, so they have no income, so naturally their status at home is very low. The mother-in-law thought, this woman eats their family's, uses their family's, certainly feels that the daughter-in-law is inferior. Therefore, there is nothing wrong with the saying that economic status determines family status. Nowadays, more women have their own independent sources of income, so they are not dependent on their own men. As a result, they are more rigid in the family< In fact, a large number of people who are mothers in law are ecated, so they are knowledgeable and reasonable, and they don't have to embarrass their daughter-in-law. It turns out that it's more of a vicious circle. They feel that they have finally become a mother-in-law from their daughter-in-law, and they are sure to get revenge from their daughter-in-law
3. Now they advocate the world of two people
in fact, in many families, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law only meet on holidays, and they don't live together, so the contradiction between them will be a little smaller. After all, most of the time they quarrel because of small things in life. When the two of them don't have much contact, the natural contradiction is much smaller
because today's women have more needs
1. Now the status of women has been improved
it turns out that more women may be housewives at home, so they have no income, so naturally their status at home is very low. The mother-in-law thought, this woman eats their family's, uses their family's, certainly feels that the daughter-in-law is inferior. Therefore, there is nothing wrong with the saying that economic status determines family status. Nowadays, more women have their own independent sources of income, so they are not dependent on their own men. As a result, they are more rigid in the family< In fact, a large number of people who are mothers in law are ecated, so they are knowledgeable and reasonable, and they don't have to embarrass their daughter-in-law. It turns out that it's more of a vicious circle. They feel that they have finally become a mother-in-law from their daughter-in-law, and they are sure to get revenge from their daughter-in-law
3. Now they advocate the world of two people
in fact, in many families, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law only meet on holidays, and they don't live together, so the contradiction between them will be a little smaller. After all, most of the time they quarrel because of small things in life. When the two of them don't have much contact, the natural contradiction is much smaller
because today's women have more needs
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