What is the performance of being self-centered
According to the basic principle of egocentrism, "egocentrism" is similar to indivialism in ethics, and closer to egoism and hedonism
But the more important difference is that egocentrism represents radical selfish thought. When everything except oneself is regarded as false, "I" is only dominated by "I" thoughttherefore, morality here is only the constraint of "I" nature on "I" thought, and all these are changeable. In short, egocentrism advocates complete freedom, arbitrary, no ethical constraints, all decisions according to the "I" will
objective egocentrism
the center here is still "I", but not "I" thought, more attention to "real" me. Objective egocentrism denies the general definition of "I" and holds that "I" is also false
However, this so-called reality is an abstract concept and may not exist in essencethe difference between objective egocentrism and subjective egocentrism is that the former is closer to the definition theory, and the most important difference between the two is not only the definition of "I", but also the attitude of "I think, therefore I am"
2. You can't listen to other people's opinions and suggestions.
3. You always feel reasonable
it is not difficult to find that there are some people who have too strong egocentrism. They only want to satisfy their own desires and ask everyone to be their own, but they are unwilling to make any sacrifice for others and ignore the pain of others. They are selfish and benefit themselves at the expense of others. Ask all people to take him as the center, wish to let the earth revolve around his will, obey him. As long as they take care of them collectively and don't talk about collective discipline, they will feel aggrieved and can't stand it. But they are not willing to proceed from objective reality and cannot obey others and the collective. This kind of people strongly want others to respect him, but they don't know they have to respect others. In a word, these people are full of self, but there is no one else in their mind. What they believe in is that man is not for himself, and heaven will destroy the earth. The problem is that self-consciousness is too strong, leading to the extreme of self centeredness, or indivialism is serious
how to overcome self centeredness
the principle of reciprocity is emphasized in interpersonal communication. If you want others to be good to you, you should also pay accordingly. In order to satisfy one's self-esteem, maintain one's self-esteem and oppose others in communication, one can only isolate oneself from the outside world and be in a state of self isolation. For people with serious psychological barriers such as egocentrism, they should face up to the social reality, learn to be polite and give in when necessary. Learn to respect, care and help others, so that you can get the reward of others and experience the value and happiness of life. Strengthen self-cultivation, learn to control their own desires and words and deeds. Egocentrism is a kind of personality defect, which can lead to depression, anxiety and other psychological diseases.
it is not difficult to find that there are some people who have too strong egocentrism. They only want to satisfy their own desires and ask everyone to be their own, but they are unwilling to make any sacrifice for others and ignore the pain of others. They are selfish and benefit themselves at the expense of others. Ask all people to take him as the center, wish to let the earth revolve around his will, obey him. As long as they take care of them collectively and don't talk about collective discipline, they will feel aggrieved and can't stand it. But they are not willing to proceed from objective reality and cannot obey others and the collective. This kind of people strongly want others to respect him, but they don't know they have to respect others. In a word, these people are full of self, but there is no one else in their mind. What they believe in is that man is not for himself, and heaven will destroy the earth. The problem is that self-consciousness is too strong, leading to the extreme of self centeredness, or indivialism is serious
how to overcome self centeredness
the principle of reciprocity is emphasized in interpersonal communication. If you want others to be good to you, you should also pay accordingly. In order to satisfy one's self-esteem, maintain one's self-esteem and oppose others in communication, one can only isolate oneself from the outside world and be in a state of self isolation
for people with serious psychological barriers such as egocentrism, they should face up to the social reality, learn to reciprocate, and make some concessions when necessary. Learn to respect, care and help others, so that you can get the reward of others and experience the value and happiness of life. Strengthen self-cultivation, learn to control their own desires and words and deeds. Egocentrism is a kind of personality defect, which can lead to depression, anxiety and other psychological diseases.
How to get along with others is also a very deep knowledge. We may meet many self-centered people in our daily life. They often don't listen to others' suggestions or know how to accept others' opinions with an open mind. Therefore, it's difficult to get along with them. For those self-centered men, Their psychology is not normal. For those men who are extremely self-centered, it is a typical narcissistic personality. Self centered psychology is not a healthy psychology. Let's learn about the special performance of those self-centered men
secondly, men who are often too proud and don't know how to behave modestly will also have a special performance, that is, men who are self-centered will often be too proud, look down on others and think they are the best. In addition, they don't know how to behave low-key and modestly and be too proud
in addition to the above two points, self-centered men may also have obsessive-compulsive disorder, forcing others to do things they do not want or like to do
in addition to the appearances mentioned above, what other special performances do you think self-centered men have? Welcome to the comments below
