What is the operation stage of de egocentrization
please describe all kinds of emotions and emotions of the baby itself and other people in the environment with words
start from simple: happy, sad, afraid, calm, angry
then further understand the advanced emotions accurately: sadness, fear, friendly
finally, to some higher emotions: embarrassment, withdrawal, Anger, etc.
remember not to think that children are born with a lot of knowledge. The baby can judge and analyze self-learning either from family ecation or from TV and other social ecation
distraction is the best intervention method
children aged 2-3 have incomplete cognitive system, and the best way is to divert their attention when their emotions are out of control. Use other more attractive things to save the child from the boring and noisy mood
remember: don't be angry with your child, and reason with your child, it's all the performance of parents with low EQ
how to & quot; Egocentrism & quot; It is the main task of the baby at this stage
(tapping the blackboard, which is the source of future EQ)
let the child know & quot; You & quot& quot; I & quot& quot; He & quot; There are also differences between & quot; Your & quot& quot; My & quot& quot; His & quot; The difference
can start with sharing:
for example, a beautiful little sister came to the family, and the baby was very happy, and took a small apple to give to her sister.
many parents may immediately criticize their children for doing wrong or even for being selfish in the face of this situation
it's only after decades of life that I have accumulated my right and wrong ideas. How can I ask a two or three-year-old child to have the same right and wrong ideas as myself
what can we do
baby: if someone gives you an apple, do you want a big one or a small one
he replied without thinking: big
Yes, you see, you want to get a big one. Do you think Miss would like to receive a big one or a small one
he thought about it and replied, "big one
are you happy if someone gives you a little apple
the baby thinks: not happy
do you think little sister will be happy to receive the apple you gave him
the baby shakes his head thoughtfully: unhappy
do you want your little sister to be happy or unhappy
baby: I hope my little sister is happy
do you think you should give the teacher a big apple or a small one
baby: Big Apple
when I have similar conflicts, please describe the thoughts, feelings and expectations of people from different positions and angles as comprehensively as possible, so that the baby can realize that different people will have different thoughts, feelings and expectations from an early age
this kind of & quot; Decentralization & quot; Thinking training will be the foundation of EQ in the future
Children's thinking development shows three different ways: intuitive action thinking, concrete image thinking and abstract logic thinking. Children's early thinking is based on intuitive action thinking, children's middle thinking is based on concrete image thinking, and children's late abstract logical thinking begins to sprout
The thinking of 0-2 years old children is mainly intuitive action thinking. Intuitive action thinking refers to the thinking that mainly uses intuitive actions and actions to solve problems. For example, a child drags a cloth on a table to get a toy that he can't get directly. Intuitive action thinking is inseparable from children's perception and action of the object, which is the budding thinking of early children. Piaget believes that there are two obvious signs of children's thinking development at this stage: first, children sometimes can solve problems without obvious external attempts; Second, it proces the ability of delayed imitation. The so-called delayed imitation refers to the imitation of behavior or action after the object or action disappears in front of the eyes for a period of timegenerally speaking, children have acquired the following abilities: children begin to pay attention to the spatial relationship of objects through reaching out and grasping, which makes children graally go beyond direct perception and movement and begin to understand the world around them; Children break through the limitation of direct experience, develop the concept of sequential time dimension, and have a preliminary understanding of causality; Children begin to understand the relationship between goals and means; Children can imitate not in front of the behavior and show obvious purpose and so on
In Piaget's view, one of the greatest achievements of children's thinking development at this stage is to obtain the concept of "object permanence", that is, children understand that the objects that disappear in front of them will continue to exist. Piaget believes that it is a graal learning process for children to believe that objects still exist when they don't directly perceive them. It runs through the whole stage of perceptual movement, and its typical performance is the play behavior of hidden cat. Intuitive action thinking is a way of thinking throughout one's life. Children's intuitive action thinking is inseparable from children's perception and action of real objects, so it lacks the planning of action and the predictability of behavior results, and the thinking is obviously narrow-minded
(Fig. conservation experiment)
3. The sprout of abstract thinking
abstract thinking refers to the thinking of using abstract concepts or words to solve problems according to the logical relationship of things. At the end of childhood, that is, 6-8 years old, children begin to sprout abstract thinking
First, children begin to acquire reversible thinking. For example, young children begin to realize that if they subtract a few from a pile of beads and then add the same number of beads, the total number of beads in the pile will remain the sameSecond, children's thinking began to be self-centered. The so-called decentralization means that children realize that the views of others may be different from their own, and that children can consider problems from the standpoint and perspective of others. For example, young children begin to be able to solve the "three mountain problem"
Thirdly, children begin to focus on several attributes of an object at the same time, and begin to realize the relationship between these attributes. For example, young children begin to realize that an object can have several attributes, such as weight and size, and realize that these attributes are separable Fourthly, children begin to use logical principles. The important logic principle that children acquire is invariance principle, that is, the basic attribute of an object remains unchanged. Another principle is the principle of equivalence, that is, if some attribute of a is equal to B and B is equal to C, then a must be equal to C2. Pre operation stage (2-7 years old). At this time, the child has not yet established the real logical operation ability, can only learn the preliminary metaphysical cognition, so it often shows the self-centered way of thinking. Piaget's "three mountains experiment" is to verify the characteristics of self cognition in this stage
3. Specific operation stage (7-12 years old). At this time, children began to establish specific logical thinking ability, and began to learn to analyze things rationally. But we can't think logically out of the physical objects completely, so the thinking at this time is more abstract than image thinking. This is also the reason why primary school teachers often need to give examples in kind in class, and their examination questions are often applied
4. Formal operation stage (over 12 years old). At this time, children began to learn abstract operations, and they could do logical thinking without physical objects. They learned to enter the thinking mode of alts. However, there are many people who can not enter the stage of formal operation in their life, but can only stay in the stage of concrete thinking, which is often manifested in the lack of logical reasoning ability and spatial imagination ability. According to gender differences, psychological research tends to be mostly female
it should be noted that Piaget's cognitive development theory is a longitudinal description of human cognitive development process from the perspective of developmental psychology. However, to really understand the essence of Geneva School, we need to combine it with his other horizontal cognitive theory "genetic epistemology" to understand Piaget's point of view.
if you can give good praise and praise to the advantages of children, the disadvantages will disappear naturally
pay attention to every change in the process of children's growth
don't think that children's performance has been fixed. The present performance is only a link in their growth process. They will continue to grow
don't be perfectionist
some parents set very high standards for their children and ask them to be perfect from the beginning. For children, many things are the first time in life, and may not be done well; And in so many bad possibilities, how wonderful it is for a child to accomplish one thing beautifully. Parents must praise it. In this way, parents will not care too much about those things that are not done well
do not compare with other children
parents should not always compare their children with other children. As long as their own children develop according to their own personality, it is very satisfactory. Every child has his own personality. Parents should believe that as long as the child can develop his own expertise and has a skill in his own field of expertise, he can grow into a leader in this field
} don't take the cultivation of learning ability as the focus of ecation. Learning ability is certainly important, but if we blindly take it as the focus of ecation, the whole ecation will be tilted. We must take the ecation of the soul as the focus of ecation, and focus on the cultivation of children's Eq. we should attach importance to the ecation of the soul, so that the learning ability will be greatly improved
now is the best time
don't stare at children's shortcomings, as long as you are good at discovering children's advantages and strengths, and give affirmation and praise to their small progress, you can make those shortcomings disappear. The more parents try to correct their children's shortcomings, the more likely they will be counterproctive, and the more stubborn their shortcomings will be in their children. Instead of doing so, it is better to regard the present child as the best, affirm his advantages and praise his strengths, so that the child will naturally become excellent
precautions 1. The most important thing in early childhood is not to learn knowledge
the most important thing in early childhood is not to learn knowledge, but to let children form lifelong beneficial quality, attitude, emotion and ability, which is very important. Of course, we should also master some necessary knowledge and skills, but this is not the most important task of early childhood
2. The most suitable way to cultivate children is "play"
the method of preaching is not suitable for cultivating children, and the method suitable for children's age characteristics is "play". Children can learn to discuss with others in the process of playing games
3. The introction of social hot issues into the classroom
can timely introce social hot issues into the curriculum, as well as "care for others" ecation, organize children to visit homes for the aged and open schools, and perform puppet shows, so that children can know how to sympathize with and care for the weak
4. Pay attention to the development potential of children
as a basic ecation, early childhood ecation should pay attention to the sustainable development of children. Let children develop good study, life, behavior, health habits, imperceptibly create a healthy and beautiful mind, let children grow up healthy and happy
5. If children want to be parents, they should first do
children's ecation can not rely on school alone, family and society will have an impact on children. Families have a greater influence on children. Moreover, because children like to imitate alts, but they don't know how to choose, they imitate and express everything they see and hear in the family and society in the game. For example, some children will imitate the drunken appearance of alts. Parents, whether speaking or acting, are actually teaching their children how to do it< Some people say that children are not sensible, and they will teach slowly when they grow up. Don't look down on children, they already know a lot of things. When a child is young, teaching is more acceptable. If you miss early childhood ecation, it will be difficult to correct it later< Many parents like to arrange for their children.
parents often say that they attach great importance to their children's ecation, but when it comes to small things, they can't. Most families have only one child, so try to meet the needs of the children. Parents should let go, let the child get exercise, can't let him rely on everything.
Piaget's classification of the stages of children's thinking development and the characteristics of each stage:
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perceptual operation stage (sensorimotor stage, 0-2 years old)
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the main cognitive structure of children in this stage is perceptual motor schema, by which children can coordinate perceptual input and action response, and thus rely on action to adapt to the environment. Through this stage, children graally develop from an indivial who only has reflexive behavior to a problem solver who has a preliminary understanding of their daily life environment
2. Pre operational stage (pre operational stage, 2-7 years old)
children internalize perceptual actions into images and establish symbolic functions. They can think with psychological symbols (mainly images), thus making a qualitative leap in thinking
Concrete operations stage (concrete operations stage, 7-11 years old)in this stage, children's cognitive structure evolves from the representation schema in the pre operation stage to the operation schema. The characteristics of concrete operational thinking are conservation, detachment and reversibility. Piaget believes that the psychological operation of this period focuses on abstract concepts, which is operational (logical), but the thinking activities need the support of specific content
In this period, children's thinking develops to the level of abstract logical reasoning. Children in the stage of formal operation can get rid of the influence of reality, pay attention to hypothetical propositions, and make logical and creative reflection on hypothetical propositions. At the same time, children can make hypothesis dective reasoningextended data:
extended data:
Jean Piaget, born on August 9, 1896, died on September 16, 1980, is a Swiss, the most famous child psychologist in modern times. His theory of cognitive development has become a model of this discipline. He has left more than 60 monographs and 500 papers for posterity. He has been to many countries to give lectures and won dozens of honorary doctorates, honorary professors and honorary academicians of science
Piaget's most important contribution to psychology is that he changed Freud's random and unsystematic clinical observation into a more scientific and systematic one, which makes great progress in clinical psychology in the future Jean Piaget network
Egocentrism is the main achievement of the pre operation stage
The pre operation stage starts from children's learning a language and lasts until about 5 to 6 years old. At this stage, children develop symbolic representation schema through language, imitation, imagination, symbol game and symbol painting, and their knowledge is still largely determined by their own perceptionchildren are completely centered on their own body and movement, and they can understand things from their own stand and point of view, but they can not understand things from the objective and other people's point of view
Piaget divides the cognitive development of children and adolescents into four stages: perceptual motor stage, pre operation stage, specific operation stage and formal operation stage
he believes that all children will go through these four stages in turn, and the emergence of new mental abilities is a sign of the arrival of each new stage, and these new mental abilities enable people to understand the world in a more complex way
not all children complete the same stage at the same age, however, their order through each stage is consistent. The former stage is the premise to reach the latter stage. The development of the stage is not a discontinuous jump, but a graal and continuous change
