How to make it mandatory to go to a rehab center

1. Alcohol addicts often lack a correct understanding of their current situation. So I think it's very necessary to understand my own situation and the extent of my craving for alcohol and deformity. First of all, you should honestly admit that you are a drunkard, a drunkard, and an alcohol addict. Accurate positioning is the only way to suit the right medicine. Sincerely admit that you can't do anything about alcohol. Your life is a mess because of alcohol. Recognize the inevitable causal relationship between staying awake and getting a healthy life. It's the first step out of abstinence. It is an important prerequisite. Without this understanding, the rest can be avoided. This is the most basic and extremely important issue of attitude, and attitude decides everything here<

as for the wife of a drunkard, how can you help your husband to quit drinking? We drunkards who start a new life after drinking should tell you:
first of all, no matter what your drunkard husband says, try not to blame him. Because alcoholism is a disease, a deteriorating disease. The cause of this disease is e to the body's sensitivity to alcohol, coupled with the psychologically difficult to get rid of the compulsive drinking desire. No matter what kind of adverse consequences this psychological effect will bring, it cannot be overcome only by one's own willpower. If possible, treat him as a pneumonia patient< The problem you are struggling with usually falls into one of the following four categories:
1. Your husband just drinks too much. He often drinks, or he may only drink too much on certain occasions. Alcohol abuse was making him physically and mentally ill, but he didn't realize it. He always thinks that he can control drinking, and drinking is not harmful to him. He thinks that drinking is his business need, and he even takes pride in being able to drink. If someone calls him a drunkard, he will feel insulted. A considerable number of such people will soon become real drunkards
2. Your husband often loses control when he drinks. His work and career may have been affected. He sometimes drinks in the morning and ring the day. He always excites himself by drinking in order to eliminate the tension, depression and depression. After serious drunkenness, he will regret and tell you that he wants to give up drinking, but he can't give up drinking. We think these are the characteristics of real drinkers
3. Your husband may have been the same as the second one, but later he got worse and worse, and he spent almost all his time with wine. All his friends left him, his family nearly broke up, and his position could not be preserved. He admits that he can't drink as others do, but he wants to quit and can't
4. Your husband may make you lose hope completely. He has been unable to work normally, soaking in wine every day, and has been sent to one hospital after another. He's violent when he's drunk, or he's completely crazy, just like a psychopath. Sometimes he came back from the hospital and drank wine on his way home. The doctor also shook his head and sighed
What are we going to do with these men who are in the sea of wine and can't extricate themselves
the first principle of success is that you should never be angry. To help your husband quit drinking, you need patience and good temper
you should never nag him too much about his drinking. He may get bored and use it as an excuse to drink more. He will tell you that if you don't understand him, he may go to someone else to comfort him - not necessarily a man
be sure that he needs your company and help. Even if your husband continues to drink, don't worry about reforming your husband. You should ignore him, of course, it's just our skill of action - you're waiting for the moment
if you do, your husband may turn to appreciate your reason and patience. This lays the foundation for you to talk about his alcoholism in a friendly way when he is sober. Try to get him into the subject. Never criticize him in this kind of discussion, but put yourself in his shoes and let him see that you want to help him, not criticize him
once the discussion starts, you can suggest that he join the abstinence bar to talk to the alcoholics, or read the AA book, or at least read the chapter on alcoholism; Tell him you just want him to take care of his health. At the same time, show him that you are confident in his ability to abstain from alcohol or moderate abstinence. In this way, you may succeed in drawing his attention to the problem of alcoholism
if this method fails to attract your husband's attention, it's better to drop the topic first, but after a friendly conversation, your husband will usually take the initiative to reopen the topic soon
for the second kind of husband, he is likely to really want to quit drinking., Explain to him that the authors of these materials are alcoholics, and he may have enough interest to continue reading
if he is neither hot nor cold and thinks he is not a drinker, we suggest you follow him. Don't force it, he has sown seeds in his heart - he knows that thousands of people like him have recovered. You may find out sooner or later that he is already communicating with others in the bar or reading AA information. Wait patiently until he falls down again and again and make sure he has to act, because the more you push him, the more likely you are to delay his recovery
if your husband belongs to the third category and you are sure he wants to quit drinking, you can introce him to the bar and show him the information about AA. Maybe he's not as eager as you are, but he's almost certain to act, and may immediately start a program to stop drinking. Again, you can't put pressure on him. Let him make his own decision. He watched calmly as he drank again and again. Talk to him about his situation only when he brings up the topic. In some cases, it's better to let people outside the family urge him to take action, so as not to cause resentment
you may think that the fourth group must be hopeless, but it is not. Everyone has lost faith in them, and failure is a foregone conclusion. However, as long as we carry out the actions ahead with confidence, such people often get amazing and powerful recovery. Because after falling to the bottom, out of the instinct of survival, people generally try to climb up. They are more likely to succeed in abstinence
as for yourself, you may be worried about other people's comments, so you don't want to meet your friends or even talk about this topic to your parents, and you don't know how to explain it to your children
you don't have to talk about your husband in detail, but you can let your relatives and friends know the nature of his illness quietly. However, you have to be careful not to embarrass or hurt your husband
once you explain to these people that he is a patient, the gap between you and your friends will disappear with the increase of sympathy and understanding. You don't feel embarrassed any more, you don't feel you need to apologize, it seems that your husband has bad character. He may have a lot of problems, but it's not bad character. Your courage and calm attitude will bring miracles to your social life
these principles can also be applied to children. Unless the child really needs the father's protection, if he has a quarrel with his child while drinking, it is better not to take sides. Use your energy to create an atmosphere of understanding around yourself. In this way, the tension in every alcoholic's home will be reced
when a husband is drunk, you often feel obliged to tell his boss or leaders and friends that he is ill. If they have the right to know where he is and what he is doing, you should not lie to those people even if you want to protect him. When he is clear headed and in a good mood, ask him what you should do if you are in this situation again, so that he can see his situation clearly
there is also a helpless fear that you may be afraid that your husband will lose his position; Maybe several times. If it happens again, you might as well take a fresh look at it. Maybe it's a blessing in disguise! Because the pressure can make your husband decide never to drink again< If you and your husband find a way out, of course you will be very happy. However, no problem can be solved in an instant
you will encounter obstacles, including anger, feelings of injury and resentment. Your husband is sometimes irrational, you will be ready to criticize him, a little bit of family life can also lead to a thunderstorm of quarrels. These family disputes are quite dangerous, especially for your husband - don't forget that resentment is a fatal hazard to drinkers. Of course, you don't have to be obedient to your husband. You just need to be careful not to argue with him in a resentful or accusing manner. Mutual tolerance is a rule. If you both show a desire to remedy your shortcomings, you don't need to criticize each other
your husband knows that what he owes you is more than just staying awake. Once his drinking problem is solved, he wants to be a successful man. But you can't expect too much. His thoughts and habits are accumulated over the years. As a result, you may need new interests and major life goals just as much as your husband does. Like your husband, you should think about what you can contribute to your life, not how much you can get from it. By doing so, your life will surely be more fulfilling
maybe your husband has made a good start, but just when everything is going well, he comes home drunk, which makes you very discouraged. If you're sure he really wants to overcome his addiction, don't panic. If he never relapses, of course, it can't be better, but according to the experience of many of us, sometimes relapse is not necessarily a bad thing - your husband will immediately realize that if he wants to cure the disease, he must redouble his mental activities and continuous learning. You don't have to remind him of his mental shortcomings - he'll know for himself
never arrange his life. He will be aware of any guiding intention you have for him to date or do things in order to avoid temptation. It's important that he should feel absolutely free to come and go. If he's drunk, don't blame yourself. Then you and your husband can immediately pay attention to the fundamental problem
in a word, we need to arouse men's strong desire to quit drinking and try to make them change their ideas. Once they are on the road, we must abandon the idea of continuing to be their crutches, because abstinence is their own business after all, and it is a lifelong business
it's a bit wordy here, but what we're talking about is a summary of our own painful experience. We've learned that in a difficult way, at a great cost. Because of this, we are eager for you to understand and avoid these unnecessary difficulties
persistence, hard work and attention to skills, I believe that most alcoholic husbands can succeed with the help of their wives.

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3. The key to abstain from alcohol addiction is to eliminate the psychological barriers of patients, but it can help some drugs to overcome the physiological needs in the early stage of abstinence. The recipe 1, take three kg of Baijiu in the jink, four days later, take one or two or even five days in the morning and evening, that is, do not want to drink. 2, live eels into a 250 ml Baijiu, one day after taking the eel fraction, drink wine can quit. In addition to psychological adjustment to stress, please do more exercise, avoid taking exciting food (coffee, etc.), get enough sleep, and adjust daily life for a long time, which can effectively adjust the state of psychological tension.

4. 11. Are there any alcoholics who have given up drinking to join the mutual admonition association

it can be a long time to abstain from drinking alone, but the heart is not stable. In the mutual admonishment Association, we can learn from each other and work together with other alcoholics to enjoy a happy life without drinking and strengthen the determination to quit drinking. It's not human nature to deliberately choose a hard road to go, so many people who have been sobered up are immediately attracted by his idea after contacting AA, so as to join in and enjoy the pleasure and relaxation of Tuan Jie

12. Why does the mutual admonition Association care so much about people who drink too much

when members of the mutual admonishment Association extend a helping hand to other alcoholics who have not yet given up drinking, they also have some egoistic meanings - constantly reminding themselves of their past drinking experience will help them avoid overconfidence and lead to relapse. Members of the mutual admonishment Association, who generously spend their time and energy helping other alcoholics, can easily keep themselves sober and sober. There is also a second reason: to take this opportunity to repay those who have helped themselves. Members of the mutual admonishment Association know that a clear mind is not bought by money, nor is it bought by a long-term agreement. But as long as you have the desire to quit drinking, and sincerely hope to quit drinking, and are willing to help other people who are also willing to quit drinking, you will be able to establish a new way of life

13. What kind of organization is the alcoholics mutual admonition association

"alcoholics mutual admonishment association is a group of people in the same boat. All members work together to solve their common problems and help more people get rid of alcoholism through mutual exchange of experience, mutual support and mutual encouragement. The desire to abstain from alcohol is the only requirement for joining the association. No es or fees are required to join the mutual admonition Association; The society is self-sufficient on the donations of its members. Mutual admonition association does not form alliance with any sect, faction, political opinion, organization or institution, and does not want to intervene in any dispute; Neither support nor oppose any activity. Our main goal is to stay sober and sober, and to help other alcoholics do the same. "
"common problems" refers to alcoholism. People who identify themselves as members of mutual admonishment association are all addicts. They finally realize that they can't control drinking in any way and can't deal with this problem alone. They disclose their problems to other alcoholics. This way of "learning from each other, supporting each other and encouraging each other" is the key factor to achieve abstinence. This way not only enables them to give up drinking, but also makes most of them even do not want to drink at all
the second way to describe the alcoholics mutual admonition association is to briefly introce its organizational structure. In terms of numbers, the association has more than 2 million members in 150 countries. These members gather in local branches. Some clubs are located in some villages and towns with only a few members; others are located in large communities with hundreds of members
in a densely populated city, there may be dozens of community clubs, each meeting regularly. Many of the meetings of the mutual admonition association are open to the public. Some clubs also hold "closed meetings" so that members can discuss issues that non drinkers may not understand
local branch is the core of mutual admonition Association. Its open meetings have a friendly and mutually supportive atmosphere and are open to alcoholics and their relatives. There are now 97000 chapters around the world, hundreds of which are located in hospitals, prisons and other places of refuge< How is the mutual admonition association established<

the alcoholics mutual admonition Association began in 1935. At that time, a new Yorker who successfully quit drinking for the first time in many years went to Akron to do business and found another alcoholic there. In his first few months of abstinence, the new Yorker noticed that his desire to drink decreased as he tried to help other alcoholics. In Akron, he was introced to a local doctor with an alcohol problem. When the businessman and the doctor worked together to stop drinking, they found that their ability to stay sober was closely related to the amount of help and encouragement they could give other alcoholics
in the past four years, the movement of no name, no organizational form, and no introctory literature has been developing slowly. Later, regional groups were set up in Akron, New York, Cleveland and several other cities
in 1939, with the publication of alcoholics mutual sincerity, the name of alcoholics mutual admonishment Association came from it. With the help of many non alcoholic friends, the group began to attract the attention of the whole United States and the world
since then, a service office has been opened in New York City to answer thousands of inquiries and distribute promotional materials every year

15. Does the mutual admonition Association have any rules<

the mutual admonishment association has no rules, regulations or codes of practice
as a member of mutual admonition Association, there is no financial obligation. Most of the local branches adopt the method of voluntary donation, and most of the mutual admonishment Association branches strictly limit the amount of donations from any member and do not accept any external donations

16. Who manages the mutual admonition association

the mutual admonition association does not have any officials or managers who exercise power or authority over the whole group. The mutual admonition association has no authority. However, even in an informal organization, it is self-evident that some things need to be done by someone. For example, in the local branch, someone should arrange a suitable meeting place; The meeting must have its agenda and plan. Coffee and snacks can make the seminar of mutual admonishment association go on in an unrestrained and harmonious atmosphere. These things must also be arranged and provided by someone. In addition, many branches also think that someone needs to be responsible for keeping in touch with the development of mutual admonishment Association at the national and international level
when a branch is just established, some members may volunteer to take charge of the above work and become informal service personnel of the branch. However, these responsibilities will be borne by other members of the branch in turn through election as soon as possible, and each member has a limited term of office. A typical mutual trust Association Branch usually has a chairman, a secretary, a planning committee, a food Committee, a finance representative and a general service representative representing the branch at regional or regional meetings. All clubs urge new members who have been sober for a long time to participate in and share the work of the clubs
at the national and international level, some specific work needs to be done. Someone must write and print the association document and distribute it to the branches and indivials who come to get it. Questions raised by new and old branches must also be answered. There must be someone to answer the indivial's questions about the mutual admonishment Association and its abstinence program. Assistance and information must be provided to doctors, clergy, business people and heads of institutions. There must also be someone responsible for establishing and maintaining good public relations with newspapers, radio, television, film and other media
in order to make the mutual admonishment association develop smoothly, the early members of the association established a management committee together with their non alcoholic friends. Its current name is "General Service Council of the mutual admonishment Association for alcoholics". The Council monitors the maintenance of the tradition and other services of the mutual admonishment Association, and is responsible for maintaining the service standard of the General Service Office of the mutual admonishment Association in New York
the "General Service Conference of mutual admonition Association" meets for several days every year. The participants are about 91 representatives from different regions of mutual admonition Association, 21 Council members, staff of general service office and others. The general assembly only serves as an advisory service body, but has no power to regulate or manage members

17. Is the mutual admonition association a religious group

the mutual admonition association is not a religious group, because joining the mutual admonition association does not require any clear religious belief. No alliance with any organization or sect. It is undeniable that the AA's abstinence program is based on the acceptance of certain spiritual values. Indivial members can interpret these values in whatever way they think is the best, or they can ignore them at all
most of the members admit that they can't do anything about alcoholism before they turn to mutual admonition Association. The power of alcohol has exceeded their self-control, and they can only let it go. The admonishment society's advice is that in order to stop drinking and remain abstinent, alcoholics must accept and rely on another force, which is higher than their own. Some alcoholics are convinced that the admonishment society itself is a force higher than their own ability; Many other members believe that this power comes from "God", that is, God as they personally understand it; Other members have a completely different understanding of this
some alcoholics have absolute reservations about accepting any idea of power above themselves when they first join the mutual admonition Association. Experience has shown that if they have no prejudice on this issue and continue to participate in the meetings of mutual admonition Association, it is not difficult for them to find a feasible way to accept this absolutely personal issue

18. Is the mutual admonition association a prohibition movement

No. The mutual admonition association has nothing to do with the prohibition movement. The tenet of "neither supporting nor opposing any activity" of mutual admonition association is widely accepted by people. Naturally, it also applies to the so-called prohibition movement.

5. Hello, this is a very typical alcohol dependence syndrome, and under the influence of alcohol, there has been a very obvious behavioral disorder. You can take him to a psychiatric hospital to stop drinking. Abstinence may occur 48 to 72 hours after detoxification, and doctors will use drug intervention. And he is likely to have changed his personality.

6. The common practice is to isolate the abstainers from alcohol in a closed space. This practice can temporarily inhibit the human body's demand for alcohol. After a period of hard isolation, it can usually do not drink for a short time, and many people often drink again just after lifting the isolation environment. Because alcohol dependent patients have been drinking for many years, they have a strong dependence on their body. Many people suddenly give up drinking, just as drug addicts do when they suddenly do not have drugs, they have withdrawal reactions such as irritability, sweating, runny nose, and even hallucinations. In order to alleviate these uncomfortable symptoms, many compulsory abstainers will give them sedatives, Many patients' family members responded that when they were discharged from hospital, the patients felt a little ll, which is the reason. Due to isolated abstinence, patients in a closed space, once abstinence reaction occurs, there are no relatives around, often causing greater trauma to the patient's mind

Physical therapy is to improve the physical fitness of abstainers by regulating their body, because people who drink for a long time usually have the symptoms of physical weakness, and the willpower and resistance of weak people are relatively poor. Some use physical therapy, or convalescent abstinence, pay more attention to the body. People who drink for a long time usually have two states: one is that the more they drink, the more they can drink; the other is that they drink for a long time, causing damage to the liver and weakening their ability to decompose alcohol. They often don't drink much and are easy to get drunk. For the latter, physical therapy and abstinence, through the treatment of the body, liver function has been restored, and the ability to decompose alcohol has increased. Some patients often have the reason that the more abstinence, the more they drink. Generally, this situation is caused by recuperation and abstinence

On the one hand, we don't force isolation or prohibition. We can drink and use drugs at the same time. After the medication reaches a certain level, the human body will graally form the rejection of wine, smell the wine uncomfortable, can not drink, there will be nausea and nausea. Abstinence drugs can also be mixed with alcohol, which makes many people who don't cooperate and are unwilling to give up drinking can also give up drinking by hiding. In this way, it is easier to observe the effect in the process of medication, and it is also easier for patients to accept, recing the difficulty of family members in abstinence

7. You just pick up the glass and think of your wife and children. If you fall, who will take care of them. You should stop drinking for them

9. There is no way to stop drinking. The best way is to drink less.