How to be egocentric
Decentralization is a form of social relations and content proction formed in the development of the Internet. It is a new type of network content proction process relative to "centralization"
decentralizing is not to do without the center, but to let the nodes freely choose and decide the center. In short, centralization means that the center determines the node. The node must depend on the center, and the node cannot survive without the center. In a decentralized system, anyone is a node, and anyone can be a center. Any center is not permanent, but phased, and no center is mandatory for nodes
extended data:
in a system with many nodes, each node has a high degree of autonomy. Nodes can connect freely to each other to form a new connection unit. Any node may become the stage center, but it does not have the mandatory central control function. The influence between nodes will form nonlinear causality through the network. This open, flat and equal system phenomenon or structure is called decentralization
with the deepening of the interaction between subject and object, the constant balance of cognitive function and the continuous improvement of cognitive structure, the indivial can be released from the egocentric state, which is called decentralization
compared with the early Internet (WEB 1.0) era, Web 2.0 content is no longer proced by professional websites or specific groups, but the result of participation and creation by all Internet users with equal rights. Anyone can express their views on the Internet or create original content to proce information together
with the diversification of network service forms, the decentralized network model becomes more and more clear and possible. After the rise of Web 2.0, the services provided by Wikipedia, Flickr, blogger and other network service providers are decentralized. Any participant can submit content, and Internet users can co create or contribute content
with the emergence of more simple and easy-to-use decentralized network services, the characteristics of Web2.0 become more and more obvious. For example, the birth of services more suitable for ordinary Internet users, such as twitter and Facebook, makes it easier and more diversified to proce or contribute content to the Internet, thus enhancing the enthusiasm of Internet users to participate in the contribution and recing the threshold of procing content. Eventually, every netizen becomes a tiny and independent information provider, making the Internet more flat and content proction more diversified.
for your question, subtract the mean from each measurement.
please describe all kinds of emotions and emotions of the baby itself and other people in the environment with words
start from simple: happy, sad, afraid, calm, angry
then further understand the advanced emotions accurately: sadness, fear, friendly
finally, to some higher emotions: embarrassment, withdrawal, Anger, etc.
remember not to think that children are born with a lot of knowledge. The baby can judge and analyze self-learning either from family ecation or from TV and other social ecation
distraction is the best intervention method
children aged 2-3 have incomplete cognitive system, and the best way is to divert their attention when their emotions are out of control. Use other more attractive things to save the child from the boring and noisy mood
remember: don't be angry with your child, and reason with your child, it's all the performance of parents with low EQ
how to & quot; Egocentrism & quot; It is the main task of the baby at this stage
(tapping the blackboard, which is the source of future EQ)
let the child know & quot; You & quot& quot; I & quot& quot; He & quot; There are also differences between & quot; Your & quot& quot; My & quot& quot; His & quot; The difference
can start with sharing:
for example, a beautiful little sister came to the family, and the baby was very happy, and took a small apple to give to her sister.
many parents may immediately criticize their children for doing wrong or even for being selfish in the face of this situation
it's only after decades of life that I have accumulated my right and wrong ideas. How can I ask a two or three-year-old child to have the same right and wrong ideas as myself
what can we do
baby: if someone gives you an apple, do you want a big one or a small one
he replied without thinking: big
Yes, you see, you want to get a big one. Do you think Miss would like to receive a big one or a small one
he thought about it and replied, "big one
are you happy if someone gives you a little apple
the baby thinks: not happy
do you think little sister will be happy to receive the apple you gave him
the baby shakes his head thoughtfully: unhappy
do you want your little sister to be happy or unhappy
baby: I hope my little sister is happy
do you think you should give the teacher a big apple or a small one
baby: Big Apple
when I have similar conflicts, please describe the thoughts, feelings and expectations of people from different positions and angles as comprehensively as possible, so that the baby can realize that different people will have different thoughts, feelings and expectations from an early age
this kind of & quot; Decentralization & quot; Thinking training will be the foundation of EQ in the future
Decentralization means no center
extended meaning: with the deepening of the interaction between subject and object, the continuous balance of cognitive function and the continuous improvement of cognitive structure, the indivial can be released from the egocentric state, which Piaget calls decentralization
This kind of open, flat and equal system phenomenon or structure is called decentralization
extended data:
in a system with many nodes, each node has the characteristics of high degree of autonomy. Nodes can connect freely to each other to form a new connection unit. Any node may become the stage center, but it does not have the mandatory central control function. The influence between nodes will form nonlinear causality through the network. This open, flat and equal system phenomenon or structure is called decentralization
with the deepening of the interaction between subject and object, the constant balance of cognitive function and the continuous improvement of cognitive structure, the indivial can be released from the egocentric state, which is called decentralization
To contact more people and things, to contact more powerful people than themselves. Take a look at how the elites in the society live. Because you are one level lower than them, you will not be self-centered in the process of getting along with them. However, after you develop this character, those who are not strong in comparison will no longer be self-centered, and will grasp things in a proper way. And this method will also help you to accumulate your own contacts, make your other personalities very gentle, and you will be able to deal with future problems in the future
go to some temples to experience the quiet life of monks and see how they make their behavior meaningful in boring things every day. Compared with being self-centered, this kind of impetuous mentality can better understand some theories of the Buddhist world and make yourself more aware of how unimportant and pompous your behavior is. When a person feels that some of his behavior is boastful, then he can get rid of this bad habit, and it becomes very easy
1. Egocentrism in psychology is children's self-centered mental state and behavior tendency in the process of intelligent development
egocentrism is a concept put forward by Swiss psychologist Piaget
Piaget believes that there is a qualitative difference between the thinking of young children and alts. They can't distinguish themselves from objective things, and project their own attributes on external things. They think that sun, moon, mountain and river all have life and will. They can't distinguish their own feelings from the situation of others. If they think the soup in their own bowl is hot, they think the soup in others' bowl is also hotthe process of children's growth is a process of "decentralization", graally realizing the difference between self and external things, the difference between self and others. Graally pay attention to the feelings and wishes of others in interpersonal communication
Due to the lack of family and social ecation and the lack of personal self perception, some alts' way of thinking is still self-centered There is a fundamental difference between egocentrism in psychology and indivialism and egoism in ethicsplease refer to the entry of "egocentrism" in psychology volume of "complete book of China's Internet", written by Lu Jun
2. Ethical egocentrism
egocentrism is alts' self-centered psychological state and behavior tendency in interpersonal relationship. The specific performance is as follows:
1. Including the heart of a villain and the belly of a gentleman; Also includes the heart of a gentleman, Du villain's belly
(2) impose what you want on others. It includes good intentions and bad deeds; It also includes bad intentions and bad deeds“ "Don't do to others what you don't want to do to yourself" is a moral principle advocated by Confucius, which is reasonable“ It is a wrong principle to deal with interpersonal relationship, which is harmful It can be seen that egocentrism is not all indivialism and egoism, but some of the ways of thinking and behavior belong to indivialism and egoismin a word, psychological egocentrism can be naturally dispelled in life; The egocentrism in ethics can only be overcome by enhancing the cognitive ability and improving the moral level strong>
