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1. Most of the time, we think we are accompanying children, but our hearts are "monitoring" children<

two days ago, I had to discuss with my cousin about work. After breakfast, I gave the children to youYou's father. When I came to my cousin's home and had a simple chat with my sister-in-law, I went into the study to talk about work with my cousin. After a while, through the door, I heard my sister-in-law's roar: "what's the matter? I've made a mistake again. I can't change it."“ I've said it many times, but I can't remember. I'm so angry! "“ If you write with one stroke, if you don't write well, you tear it up and write again. "
this kind of reproach keeps on rising and falling, which makes us unable to talk about our work any more. My cousin has gone out many times to dissuade us. After a while, the sister-in-law roared again. Finally, the cousin said helplessly: "your sister-in-law is usually very gentle. As long as you accompany the children to do their homework, you can't control the power of the flood and famine in your body."
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many parents may encounter such a scene when they accompany their children to do their homework. One second ago, they were still a harmonious family, and suddenly they became like chickens flying and dogs jumping. Alts shout, children shout. Coax also can't, scold also can't, in addition to helpless still have a kind of helpless feeling
don't accompany your children to do their homework. The children linger endlessly there. I wish I could write an article in regular script for a whole day. Do your homework with your children. Alts and children are not happy, and even affect the relationship between parents and children. What should we do
in fact, most parents don't know that the reason for this kind of "chicken flying dog jumping" is not the problem of "accompanying to do homework" itself, but the incorrect "motivation" and "method" of your accompanying<

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motivation: accompany children or monitor children
many parents can't help pointing fingers at their children when they are doing homework with them, just like at the beginning of the article, are we really doing homework with our children
when youyou just entered primary school, I was also doing homework with my children. When I saw that the children's writing was not good or the speed couldn't keep up, I always couldn't help pointing out. As a result, every time youyou did her homework, she was more and more dawdling and scribbling. Even some simple questions, she was always absent-minded and didn't answer what she asked
I can't help talking to my child any longer, but the child said to me, "Mom, I don't want you to accompany me to do my homework. Every time you are here, I feel nervous and afraid. I feel like I'm being monitored, so I can't write well and I don't want to write." I can't help but feel shocked. I've worked hard to accompany my daughter, but what I give her is this feeling
many times, we think we are accompanying our children, but our hearts are "monitoring" our children
later, when I accompanied youyou to do homework, even when I saw the child's procrastination and untidy writing, I resisted the power of my own body and did not interfere. I slowly changed myself from the "motivation" of accompanying the child. I really accompanied the child instead of "monitoring". The child could not feel the pressure, so he accepted my company and did not deliberately procrastinate when doing homework, Efficiency has also improved a lot

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method: what do you accompany your children to do their homework
1. Cultivate the habit of children's active homework
when you come home from school, let the children relax and have a rest (eat something to supplement energy or chat with the children). The time should not be too long. In about ten minutes, go to the study immediately to do homework, and form the habit of finishing homework before doing other things when you come home from school
before doing homework, you should also set the homework time with your children in advance. Don't interfere with your children in the middle, just stay by your side quietly. Habits become natural, and children will have the habit of doing homework when they go home
in the process of implementation, parents should be principled, and never say what they mean and inlge their children's playing time
2. Cultivate children's correct writing posture and holding pen
in the process of doing homework, don't focus on whether the writing is standard and whether the calculation results are correct. Let the child develop the correct sitting posture, the correct pen holding posture
3. Cultivate children's good study habits
cultivate the learning order of "review homework preview", and let children learn to sort out homework and distinguish homework (which need to be calculated, which need to be recited and which need to be written silently)
go home and "strike while the iron is hot" to review today's lessons, deepen understanding and memory, and then start to do homework. At this time, homework will become more smooth, which can increase children's learning confidence. After finishing the homework, you can relax appropriately, and then start to preview what you will learn tomorrow
review can help children find a relatively weak place and make more efforts in this place; Preview can help children find the key points of the next class ahead of time, so that they can go to class with problems and key points. In this way, a virtuous circle is formed
after finishing our homework, we and our children should check our homework together, arrange our schoolbags, study materials, study stationery, and develop good study habits

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in the process of accompanying children to do homework, the most important thing is to help children create a quiet and warm learning atmosphere. When children do homework, as parents, we should also take a book to read and learn, set a good example for children, and under the guidance of whispering when children have problems with sitting posture or habits. Do not play mobile phones, play games, watch TV beside, which will cause bad influence and guidance to children.

3. The trusteeship class has several advantages: first, the trusteeship teacher has experience and can help children with homework; 2、 A good trusteeship class will review the contents of the course for the children, which is difficult for parents to do; 3、 Teaching in fun is not too boring. But the main thing is to cultivate children's good habit of doing homework
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on the first day of a child's first grade, or from now on, parents should seriously tell their children: after primary school, the first thing to do when they come home from school every afternoon is to do their homework. You can't have dinner or do anything until you finish your homework. My rule at home is that I can't watch TV from Monday to Friday, only on Saturday and Sunday can I watch TV properly
2. A table should be fixed at home for children to study and do their homework, and the children's sitting posture should be strictly required
homework in a fixed place and strict sitting posture can keep children's heart from impetuous. The requirements of sitting posture can be the same as that of teachers in school, such as upright body, flat shoulders, straight back and flat feet. According to my observation, if a child sits properly, he can concentrate more and write better. Children who don't have a fixed place to do their homework at home, or who move all of a sudden when doing their homework, have poor classroom discipline at school, are easily distracted, and their handwriting is also messy
3. We must be meticulous in giving homework guidance to the first grade children
first of all, the posture of holding pen and writing must be correct
secondly, we need to help children read the questions, because many children's literacy is still limited, Pinyin has not been finished, and the requirements of the questions are not clear. Therefore, parents must read the questions, and explain the meaning of the questions and how to do them when necessary
then, when the child is writing, he should watch to see if he writes in the order of strokes. This is very important. When a child has just come into contact with Chinese characters, the basic writing requirements of Chinese characters should be strict at the beginning. Although it takes time and energy, it can help the child not to scribble. For example, the child can't write this word. When you write next to him, you should let him observe your stroke order. If he makes a mistake in writing, he should erase it and rewrite it. For example, after I got to know bei'anqin, I sent my children to Changsha Baixi primary school campus. They all reviewed the text by watching animation and playing games. Generally, the children learned to do their homework very easily with laughter. In addition, for southerners, they should also remind children to pay attention to flat tongue, front and back nasal sounds, children's voice and suicide. Because these are not in the language of southerners, children need to consciously remember them from the beginning
4. Finally, we should have the consciousness of letting go
the purpose of teaching is not to teach, and the purpose of tutoring homework is to avoid tutoring as soon as possible. If the above points can be better done, it can slowly let go
first of all, as soon as the child finishes learning Pinyin, he should let the child read the questions by himself. If the child doesn't understand, he should explain again
secondly, when children do questions, they must first let them think for themselves. Generally, first grade children are willing to think and speak at the beginning, so they should be bold in guiding and encouraging
then, when the next term of grade one comes, parents should consciously walk away without accompanying them all the way. At the beginning, I told my child to finish the topic as soon as I got home. You would secretly observe the situation of children's homework in the corner and communicate with them in time. But at this time must still check the children's homework, wrong to correct in time
finally, as soon as children finish their homework, they have to read with their children, or let them spell storybooks with Pinyin instead of watching TV.

4. A: 1. Review. Most parents think that homework is a task, so they only need to complete it in the process of guidance, so that children can't have the effect of review. But the trusteeship class is not the same, trusteeship teachers need to consider the children's mastery of knowledge, and then synchronous review, to achieve the effect of consolidation. My child in the trusteeship class will use the animation of double teacher class to give the child an interesting review environment. There is no such great pressure in the process of learning, so it is easier for the teacher to mobilize the child's enthusiasm in class and let the child focus on the review
2. Life and study habits: when parents coach their children to do their homework, they will directly tell them how to solve problems, rather than teach them how to solve problems, which makes it easy for children to form the habit of relying on their parents. As a senior teacher with more than 10 years of rich experience, baer'an will explain them uniformly, and then let them think about their homework alone, and encounter places that they really can't, Will go to counseling problem-solving, so that children will get used to looking for their own solutions. In addition, teachers at the campus of Shahe No.2 primary school in Xingtai City will ask children to make everything accurate in advance, and then do their homework carefully to cultivate their concentration.

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1. Prepare yourself. Being a mother of one child is different from being a teacher of a group of children. We should be patient

2. It can only be an example to the class, not a hindrance to the class, not a negative teaching material. Otherwise, you will doubt why you want to open a cram school and delay the growth of your children

After the psychological close, we should begin to face our own practical problems. If you plan to use your own house, it depends on how many children are in your community and how many have already signed up for class. Do they take their meals to do homework or do their homework directly? First, find out the potential customers in your community

Proper decoration is also necessary. In a word, it must be more lively and lovely than other similar cram schools. Therefore, some simple wall stickers, blackboards, slogans, decorative green plants are indispensable. The house must be bright and clean

5. After decoration, it is to publicize the enrollment. Your child is already in primary school, so the easiest way is to bring your girl's classmates, the children in the community and the children of your own friends, as long as they are nearby, they can be sent. This is the use of their own contacts, do not need to spend money< br />

9. A: it's really not easy to give homework guidance to lower grade children. Now there are many videos on the Internet that parents are mad because of giving homework guidance to their children. You can feel it if you go and have a look. However, if you have a better temper, you may be able to give some guidance. However, the more you get to the back, the more tired you will find it is to help your children with their homework. That's why friends will advise you to send your son from the first grade to the trusteeship class. The main reason is that they will have more patience and experience in helping their children with their homework, Know how to do to make children obedient homework. Because teachers often deal with students, they have a very clear background. Mr. bell is a teacher who has been teaching for many years, so they have their own set of counseling process. As long as the children are hosted in the Yanshan primary school campus of Lixia District, Jinan City, they can watch the animation of double teachers before doing their homework, that is, the video of knowledge points. The children like it very much and can master the knowledge points in the process of watching. After they have mastered it, they will be allowed to play games and consolidate the knowledge points learned before. In fact, as long as children participate in learning, homework will become easier, and they will be more interested in learning in the future.