Mother in law beat daughter-in-law and refused to go to the conf

1. You want to live a more comfortable life after you have a baby. The counselor can fully understand
(1) the monthly cost of a child care center is tens of thousands of yuan. I don't know what your husband's income is. Do they feel financially nervous
(2) you can only stay in the confinement center for one month, and you will return to your family after you get out of the month. The family certainly does not take care of the puerpera as much as the confinement center does. Some mothers left the center to return home, can not bear the psychological gap, there was a situation of postpartum depression
I hope you can have a good communication with your family
I wish you happiness! Wish your baby healthy and beautiful!

2. Cam has six common explanations:
1. Cam (Computer Aided Manufacturing): the process of using computer to manage, control and operate proction equipment. The input information is the process route and process content of the part, and the output information is the tool path (tool position file) and NC program
2. Complementary and alternative medicine
also refers to content addressable memory
3. Movies are used for: cam (gun version)
cam is usually recorded from the cinema with a digital camera. That is the abbreviation of digital camera or camcorder, commonly known as gun version. Sometimes a small tripod is used, but most of the time it is impossible to use it, so the camera will shake. Therefore, we can see that the screen is usually dark, the characters are often distorted, and the subtitles below are often tilted. Because the sound is recorded from the microphone of the camera, the audience's laughter and other sounds are often recorded. Because of these factors, image and sound quality are usually poor
4. Cell adhesion molecule (CAM)
the molecule involved in cell adhesion is called cell adhesion molecule
5. Conditional access mole,
commonly used with pay TV terminal and head end descrambling mole, belongs to the category of satellite TV terminology
6. Crassulacean acid metabolism

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Third, how to alleviate the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law war caused by confinement

1, mutual understanding and mutual concession

in any case, the daughter-in-law is willing to give birth to children for her husband's family, so the mother-in-law should be more considerate of the daughter-in-law's difficulties. Usually take more care of the daughter-in-law, more forbearance, after all, the mother in the month of birth is weak, should avoid more quarrels. Even if there is a big contradiction between the two sides, the problem should be handed over to the husband to solve, which can not only solve the problem quickly, but also avoid the aggravation of the contradiction

The daughter-in-law and mother-in-law are strangers who know each other half the way, so it is impossible to get along with each other like a mother and daughter. Therefore, when conflicts occur, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law should sit down and take the initiative to communicate, discuss their own shortcomings and future changes, so that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will become better and better

3. Think from each other's point of view

both mother-in-law and daughter-in-law should think more about each other ring the confinement, such as what the daughter-in-law wants to eat, whether the mother-in-law is tired after taking the child for a day, etc. To know that people are meat long, only you treat others with sincerity, others will treat you in the same way. Therefore, when the problem occurs, don't rush to quarrel, try to stand in the other side's position to think about the problem, is also a good way to solve the contradiction

6. This is to start from the source. Why does the daughter-in-law beat her mother-in-law just after giving birth to the baby before she recovers? There must be a reason. Maybe there's a knot in one's heart that hasn't been solved. The daughter-in-law is too much and has knocked out her mother-in-law. It's right for the daughter-in-law to go to her mother's home for confinement. If she doesn't go away, she will have to die. It's the same with who is called to appear. However, it is not a month before the man will go over and ask the children. It seems that the family has the final say. The husband has no say. His mother will not let her son go to see him. His son will not dare to go. If this happens, he will still be happy and will not be happy in the future.

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In the past, the daughter-in-law lived a hard life. During her pregnancy, she had to work in the fields. After giving birth, she didn't have to sit in the confinement. After a few days of cultivation, she had to work with her husband in order to have a good meal and live a good life. Since the 1990s, China's economy has been growing rapidly. As the daughter-in-law of the post-90s to the present era, the living conditions of the daughter-in-law of the Post-70s and post-80s are different from those of the Post-70s and post-80s. Different times bring up two generations of daughter-in-law's different views on marriage, but also because the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have different attitudes towards marriage, resulting in a big and small number of contradictions

to say this is not to tell friends what causes the conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but to let some friends know that most of the problems and events that lead to conflicts are caused by mother-in-law and daughter-in-law arguing about "how to make the future life better" with the help of the above analysis. In real life, some mother-in-law think that their daughter-in-law is a new woman, and they don't know how to be a good wife to make their son live a happier life, so they will teach their daughter-in-law how to do in marriage with their own experience as daughter-in-law. Some daughter-in-law think that her mother-in-law is too nosy and depends on her old age

after her mother-in-law came, Li Ran thought that her mother-in-law would consider that it was not easy for her to have a baby, and that she was weak to help her with the housework. Unexpectedly, her mother-in-law not only didn't help, but fell into the well and saw her daughter-in-law lying in bed, neither washing nor cooking. She pointed directly to Li Ran's nose and said, "what's so delicate? I used to work in the field after I had a baby

you come down here and get the food ready and the clothes washed. " Seeing his mother-in-law treating him like this, Li Ran felt chilly. He held back the tears that were about to fall and said weakly, "my husband asked you to take care of me, not me to serve you. Mother-in-law, you should make it clear." Regardless of her daughter-in-law's words, she went to Li Ran's bed and pulled her daughter-in-law out of bed. Li Ran didn't follow her. When Li Ran's mother-in-law got angry, she slapped her daughter-in-law directly and scolded her: "you don't listen to me. I tell you that a daughter-in-law should have the consciousness of being a daughter-in-law. You don't know how to live a good life if you have to bear hardships. I'm beating you for your own good. I'm going to do what I've told you. " Li Ran was blinded by the blow, and his tears could not help falling down. He cried to his mother-in-law and said, "today, you hit me. I remember. From small to large, my parents are reluctant to beat me, you dare to beat me, you wait, after you are old, don't blame me

the mother-in-law was shocked by her daughter-in-law's words at the beginning, and then she heard the sentence "you're old, but don't blame me". She was so angry that she snapped: "well, you're really my good daughter-in-law, and my kindness has been taken as a donkey's liver and lung. Since you don't listen to me, I don't have to be here. I'll go With these words, Granny Li Ran packed and went back to her hometown

when Zhang Tao came back, he saw his wife's red and swollen left face and asked what happened. After Li Ran told her the whole story, Zhang Tao was very remorseful. Li Ran said to her husband in a hateful voice: "in the future, I won't care about her any more. If you dare to mention her to me, we will divorce." After more than ten years, Li Ran did not speak to her mother-in-law again, let alone go to see her. Nowadays, mother-in-law Li Ran is old and has many kinds of physical problems. She needs to be taken care of urgently. Although Zhang Tao wanted her to take care of him, he knew that his wife still resented his mother and didn't ask for help

Li Ran saw what her husband thought and offered to take care of her mother-in-law. Knowing that her wife had put down her hatred for herself, Zhang Tao held Li Ran's hands and said "thank you.". When Li Ran arrived at the hospital, he saw his mother-in-law lying in the hospital bed. First, he called "Ma" strangely. Then he told her that Zhang Tao was busy and had been taken care of by her recently. The mother-in-law saw her daughter-in-law that moment, tears fell down, choked and said: "when I was so to you, are you still angry with me?" Li Ran sighed and said vaguely: "can you not be angry? A mother-in-law like you is angry at any daughter-in-law's stall, but what's the use of being angry? You are my mother-in-law after all. "

the mother-in-law knew who her daughter-in-law was looking after herself for. She was moved and regretted that Li Ran could take care of herself for her son in spite of her bad treatment. She regretted that she had such a good daughter-in-law, but she had treated her so well before. Li Ran told me: "although more than ten years have passed, I still hate her in my heart. After all, the slap she slapped me at the beginning makes me really fresh in my memory, just like yesterday. But now that she is old, I will not take care of her. Who will take care of her? " I understand her complicated mood now, and I admire her for being able to let go of her old grudges. Li Ran is a good daughter and daughter-in-law. Unfortunately, he met an unreasonable mother-in-law

to borrow Li Ran's example is not to reprimand her mother-in-law, but to let some mothers-in-law understand through Li Ran's example that the age when you were a daughter-in-law is not the same as it is now, and that your behavior as a daughter-in-law was just forced by real life. You can't preach to your daughter-in-law by example. Her understanding of marriage and her behavior towards your marriage may not make your son's marriage unhappy

children and grandchildren have their own good fortune. As a mother-in-law, she should take part in her daughter-in-law's housework and blame her daughter-in-law. If you preach by example and pick the bone from your daughter-in-law's behavior, then your daughter-in-law will certainly treat you badly. If you do more excessive things to your daughter-in-law, it's light not to provide for you. She is likely to divorce your son. The final result is that your son lost his original happy marriage, and you are the culprit

a message to my mother-in-law: your daughter-in-law doesn't participate much in the family affairs. You can not take care of her pregnancy or confinement, but don't fall into the trap. If you want to shorten the distance between you and your daughter-in-law and make your son's marriage happier, remember the four words of being kind to your daughter-in-law

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when it comes to the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, I believe that many married women will have a lot of bitterness. Because of the particularity and sensitivity of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, many married women do not know how to deal with it, which leads to many contradictions in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and then affects the marriage life

in fact, women are not to blame for this. After all, because a man, inexplicably, has become a mother daughter relationship with another strange woman, he will be at a loss where to put it. And we all know the value of this "mother daughter relationship."

so someone would suggest that a mother-in-law can treat her daughter-in-law as her own daughter, but a daughter-in-law should never treat her mother-in-law as her mother

because your biological mother will understand your little temper, your willfulness, even if there is a conflict, she will forgive you. But mother-in-law is not the same, good time everyone is good, once there is a conflict, then the previous relationship will collapse

so many women are always on tenterhooks when they get along with their mother-in-law, or they are on guard and can't let go of their body and mind to communicate with their mother-in-law. This also led to the difficult relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law

if you want to ask when the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is, it is easy to have conflicts. So I think it should be two stages. The first stage is when a woman is pregnant and her mother-in-law comes to take care of her; The second stage is when the mother-in-law helps to take care of the children

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Zhang Hao hurriedly advised his parents-in-law that when Jialin's mother saw him, she didn't beat him out, pointed to her nose and scolded, "you're a piece of rubbish. You don't know how to stop my wife from being beaten. How could I have been blind and let my daughter marry you

when the crowd jostled, her mother-in-law was afraid, so she called the police. After the police came, they began to mediate, and Jialin's parents went back with them

After the incident, Zhang Hao went to Jialin's mother's home many times to ask for love, saying that he had sent his mother home and would not let his mother deliberately make trouble for Jialin in the future. Jialin just went home with him

most of the time, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is often caused by a small matter. However, since contradictions can be triggered, it means that we have been feuding for a long time. Men should play the role of lubricant in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and nip out the signs of contradiction in the bud

husband and wife work together to actively solve the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and jointly manage the marriage. I believe that only in this way can the marriage become happy

9. The mother-in-law should take good care of the baby. After all, when the daughter-in-law comes to a strange family, she should pay more love to take care of the daughter-in-law. If she is more kind to the daughter-in-law, the son can also rece the burden.

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When are women most vulnerable? Obviously, after the birth

at that time, women's physical and mental changes, whether internal hormone secretion or external changes, all need women to have strong adaptability

Chinese people pay attention to confinement, one is to hope that the puerpera can recover well, the other is to have enough breast milk for their children. Based on these two considerations, most families will improve their diet, living environment and other aspects ring this period