To go to the confinement center, you need a family to accompany
each level will be lower correspondingly
the salary of the sister-in-law depends on your working years (grade)
and the region where the sister-in-law is located
different regions
the salary is also different
A: yuyueju wrote down the simple analysis and comparison of whether to go to the confinement center or ask Yuesao. It's only for your reference and you can make your own decision
First, the advantages of inviting Yuesao are more economical
at present, the average price for a month's wife in Guangzhou is about 12000 yuan. Even with some other expenses, it is still significantly lower than the price of tens of thousands in the month Center
2. You can take delivery at home, and you are familiar with the environment
mothers are physically and psychologically tired and vulnerable after having just experienced the birth as if their bodies were hollowed out. At this time, they will be more relaxed psychologically when they can return home
< UL >disadvantages
1. Haoyuesao is scarce and the market is hot, so it is necessary to make an appointment in advance
at the peak of the birth season, people gather to give birth to babies, which makes the already hot Yuesao market even more in short supply. Many Yuesao's classes are arranged in the first half of next year. If you decide to invite your sister-in-law, you must make an appointment early. After all, what's worse than not being able to afford her is that you can't get her with money
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3. There are also many troubles in confinement at home
the family suddenly has one more person to live in. For some families in the first tier cities, the rooms may not be enough. If you live with your mother-in-law or mother, you need to consider how to solve the conflict with your elders' ideas. After all, many old people's ideas still stay in the stage of "not getting out of bed in confinement, not ventilation, not washing hair and brushing teeth, far away from fruits and vegetables"
Second, choose to go to the child care centeradvantages
1, more scientific care
in the confinement center, every mother and child can enjoy the professional nursing provided by a team composed of full-time sister-in-law, doctors, nutritionists, rehabilitation experts and nurses. Compared with taking delivery at home, taking delivery at the delivery center is the difference between indivials and teams, experience and profession, which is hard to make up for by one or even several months
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e to hormone effect, mothers are prone to emotional instability. At this time, if there is a conflict of opinion with the elders of the family e to the problems of confinement and raising children, family war is imminent, and everyone is kind-hearted and unhappy. Going to the confinement center and being taken care of by professional nurses can largely avoid this kind of problem
3. No worries about the service
you can enjoy a series of services including luxury accommodation, professional nursing, doctor's visit, nutritional catering, rehabilitation training, early infant ecation, etc. If you buy these items one by one, you will be worried
The price is relatively expensivethe prices of mainstream child care centers ranged from 30000 to 60000 yuan, with the average consumption of 50000 yuan in the first tier cities and 40000 yuan in the second and third tier cities. The price of tens of thousands of yuan is still on the high side for a large number of families
2. Weak supervision and lack of standardization
any instry has a process of graally becoming mature and standardized. The birth center is rising with the improvement of people's living standards and needs, and it has been less than 10 years. Until the end of 2018, Chongqing pregnant and Baby Procts Instry Association officially established relevant branches to participate in the standardization and guidance of the month care center, which is believed to inject positive factors into the future development of the instry
through the above analysis, do you have a clear idea of how to choose confinement
Economic conditions are OK, but it is necessary. I'm sleeping all the time. Just feed him and change his diapers. But do you always give your baby a bath? Just gave birth to the baby in the confinement of the maternal, to help the baby bath this matter, is certainly difficult. Moreover, the puerpera is not only physically weak, but also psychologically vulnerable. If possible, it's better not to be alone
according to the editor, if there is no one at home who can take care of you, it is the best choice to go to the confinement center, because there are professionals to take care of you
because, women in the puerperium are very weak. Who will buy vegetables? This is the basic problem of food and clothing
both you and your baby need a good rest ring the confinement. In this case, you'd better go to the confinement club first, and make the confinement well. I'm also a baby. I took it myself from 2 months, and I found an hour worker at home to help.
I began to doubt whether it was true uterine contraction, but I still didn't believe in myself. After walking home, around 9 o'clock, I lay on the sofa for a while, At that time, my heart was too big. I thought calmly that I would not be born so soon. After some tangles, I had to take a shower and wash my hair first. After that, my husband told me to go to bed first. If I couldn't, I would go to the doctor
Bao's care and new mother's physical recovery are of great help. Therefore, it is recommended to go to the confinement center to take the confinement, so as to avoid the problems caused by bad confinement
, the newborn baby is not too noisy. Now there is a washing machine for washing clothes, that is, cooking. If you are in good health, it's OK. I didn't cook at that time, and the clothes of a family of four
1. The environment is not perfect
no matter how perfect the conditions and facilities are, the confinement center is no more casual than the one you live in. It's completely your own space without other people's interference. After all, the confinement center has the nature of a hotel. It is impossible for all items to be complete. There will always be some kind of regret
2. We can't provide personalized food service
in many confinement centers, the most difficult problem to solve is the diet problem, because the postpartum time of each puerpera is different, the degree of gastrointestinal recovery is also different, and the diet time and diet habits of many puerpera are different, so the diet of confinement center is difficult to adjust. Although there is a professional dietitian to prepare the diet, it is impossible to provide diet service for each indivial
3. It is easy to involve the energy of family members
mothers live in the confinement center, so it's inevitable for them to be accompanied and visited by their families. Many new fathers are busy working in the company ring the day, and they have to rush to the confinement center to accompany their wives after work. One month's time is really a drag on the husband's energy
4. It is easy to lead to family alienation
many mothers in law are dissatisfied with their daughter-in-law entering the confinement center, as if the cohesion of the family has disappeared. At the same time, in the eyes of the older generation, the confinement center is not as functional and comprehensive as home in any case, so it is easy to cause indifference between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. In addition, going to the confinement center undoubtedly provides a chance for the new father to extricate himself. When you need the husband's care and consideration most, the husband doesn't know where he is busy working, socializing and entertaining, which is undoubtedly detrimental to the maintenance of the marriage relationship.
I would choose to go to the confinement center for confinement
don't worry about anything,
don't worry about eating, drinking and taking care of children,
learn some experience slowly,
you can take care of your baby in a month.
secondly, the "closed door policy" is a manifestation of the national narrowness of the rulers of the Qing Dynasty. Because of the sharp contradiction and struggle between the nobles and the masses of the people, the rulers of the Qing Dynasty tried to isolate the Han people from the outside world by means of "closed door", so as to prevent foreigners from supporting the Han people and forming anti Qing forces< At the same time, after the middle of Ming Dynasty, Japanese pirates invaded the southeast coast of China and the colonial expansion of western colonists to the East, which was also the objective reason for the rulers of Ming and Qing Dynasties to implement the "closed door policy"
3. The influence of the "closed door policy": the Qing government tried to strengthen its own rule internally and "defend itself" externally through the "closed door policy". As a means of passive defense, this kind of policy once played a role of national self-defense with the increasingly impending and violent foreign aggression of western capitalism. But its greater influence is that it has seriously hindered the progress and development of modern Chinese society. It has made China isolated from the world for a long time, seriously hindered the development of domestic commodity economy and the germination of capitalism, and made the economy, culture, science and technology lag behind the West; It is not concive to the normal communication between the Chinese nation and other nationalities in the world, nor is it concive to the Chinese people's understanding of the world, going to the world and learning from the excellent ideology, culture and advanced science and technology of all nationalities in the world, thus leading to the passive attack of modern China. Under the influence of the closed door policy, China's economy has not changed greatly; ② During the second instrial revolution, China was still under the feudal rule of the Qing Dynasty. The westernization movement only learned Western military technology and science and technology to maintain the feudal rule, and soon failed; The introction of foreign capitalist equipment continued to plunder China through war and capital export; The development of Chinese national capitalism is extremely slow; ③ During the third scientific and technological revolution, e to the long-term hostility, blockade and encirclement of imperialist countries, China did not have a peaceful environment for the development of scientific and technological revolution, nor did it have normal exchanges; After the founding of the people's Republic of China, influenced by the highly centralized political and economic system of the Soviet Union, the "left" trend of thought overflowed, the intellectual policy was not implemented, the development of ecation was often impacted, and science and technology lost good opportunities for development
the closed door policy blocked the foreign trade of Qing Dynasty, which was not concive to economic development; The rulers of the Qing Dynasty regarded themselves as a great power in China, which seriously affected the progress of Chinese culture; Isolated from the world, China can neither see the changes of the world situation nor learn advanced scientific knowledge and proction technology from the west at the right time, which makes China graally fall behind in the world. The seclusion of the Qing Dynasty seriously hindered the development of other proction and the progress of science and technology. The backwardness of science and technology led to the backwardness of military forces. The Qing Dynasty was in the weak period of feudal society. The feudal relations of proction had begun to hinder the development of proctive forces. The policy of closing the door to the outside world made it difficult for the advanced system to enter.
when I was in confinement, I was at home. My mother-in-law came from her hometown to take care of me, but she didn't invite my sister-in-law. I thought that my rest and baby care were well done, and it wasn't as chicken feather as I imagined. So what should I pay attention to if I choose not to invite my sister-in-law and take care of my baby at home
the most important thing is to determine who will take care of the puerpera. In general, except for a week's paternity leave, the husband basically has to go to work, and the responsibility of taking care of the baby generally falls on the mother or mother-in-law of the puerpera
it's more convenient to communicate with your mother when she comes to take care of the baby, because it's easy for the pregnant woman to be unstable ring the confinement. You should take good care of the pregnant woman's mood. If your mother is not satisfied with anything, you can directly communicate with her mother. If there are differences in the problem of taking care of the baby, you can solve it in time
if the mother-in-law comes to take care of her, then the husband should make a good communication bridge. It's better for the husband to explain the matters to be paid attention to with the mother-in-law in advance. If there are differences between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law, they should also resolve them in time. In short, in addition to diet, a harmonious family atmosphere is the key to a good month