De egocentrism
Publish: 2021-04-27 17:02:20
1. 1、 The metaphysical view of egocentrism
2. The main performance of egocentrism is
it is not difficult to find that there are some people who have too strong egocentrism. They only want to satisfy their own desires and ask everyone to be their own, but they are unwilling to make any sacrifice for others and ignore the pain of others. They are selfish and benefit themselves at the expense of others. Ask all people to take him as the center, wish to let the earth revolve around his will, obey him. As long as they take care of them collectively and don't talk about collective discipline, they will feel aggrieved and can't stand it. But they are not willing to proceed from objective reality and cannot obey others and the collective. This kind of people strongly want others to respect him, but they don't know they have to respect others. In a word, these people are full of self, but there is no one else in their mind. What they believe in is that man is not for himself, and heaven will destroy the earth. The problem is that self-consciousness is too strong, leading to the extreme of self centeredness, or indivialism is serious
how to overcome self centeredness
the principle of reciprocity is emphasized in interpersonal communication. If you want others to be good to you, you should also pay accordingly. In order to satisfy one's self-esteem, maintain one's self-esteem and oppose others in communication, one can only isolate oneself from the outside world and be in a state of self isolation. For people with serious psychological barriers such as egocentrism, they should face up to the social reality, learn to be polite and give in when necessary. Learn to respect, care and help others, so that you can get the reward of others and experience the value and happiness of life. Strengthen self-cultivation, learn to control their own desires and words and deeds. Egocentrism is a kind of personality defect, which can lead to depression, anxiety and other psychological diseases.
it is not difficult to find that there are some people who have too strong egocentrism. They only want to satisfy their own desires and ask everyone to be their own, but they are unwilling to make any sacrifice for others and ignore the pain of others. They are selfish and benefit themselves at the expense of others. Ask all people to take him as the center, wish to let the earth revolve around his will, obey him. As long as they take care of them collectively and don't talk about collective discipline, they will feel aggrieved and can't stand it. But they are not willing to proceed from objective reality and cannot obey others and the collective. This kind of people strongly want others to respect him, but they don't know they have to respect others. In a word, these people are full of self, but there is no one else in their mind. What they believe in is that man is not for himself, and heaven will destroy the earth. The problem is that self-consciousness is too strong, leading to the extreme of self centeredness, or indivialism is serious
how to overcome self centeredness
the principle of reciprocity is emphasized in interpersonal communication. If you want others to be good to you, you should also pay accordingly. In order to satisfy one's self-esteem, maintain one's self-esteem and oppose others in communication, one can only isolate oneself from the outside world and be in a state of self isolation. For people with serious psychological barriers such as egocentrism, they should face up to the social reality, learn to be polite and give in when necessary. Learn to respect, care and help others, so that you can get the reward of others and experience the value and happiness of life. Strengthen self-cultivation, learn to control their own desires and words and deeds. Egocentrism is a kind of personality defect, which can lead to depression, anxiety and other psychological diseases.
3. The main performance of egocentrism is
it is not difficult to find that there are some people who have too strong egocentrism. They only want to satisfy their own desires and ask everyone to be their own, but they are unwilling to make any sacrifice for others and ignore the pain of others. They are selfish and benefit themselves at the expense of others. Ask all people to take him as the center, wish to let the earth revolve around his will, obey him. As long as they take care of them collectively and don't talk about collective discipline, they will feel aggrieved and can't stand it. But they are not willing to proceed from objective reality and cannot obey others and the collective. This kind of people strongly want others to respect him, but they don't know they have to respect others. In a word, these people are full of self, but there is no one else in their mind. What they believe in is that man is not for himself, and heaven will destroy the earth. The problem is that self-consciousness is too strong, leading to the extreme of self centeredness, or indivialism is serious
how to overcome self centeredness
the principle of reciprocity is emphasized in interpersonal communication. If you want others to be good to you, you should also pay accordingly. In order to satisfy one's self-esteem, maintain one's self-esteem and oppose others in communication, one can only isolate oneself from the outside world and be in a state of self isolation
for people with serious psychological barriers such as egocentrism, they should face up to the social reality, learn to reciprocate, and make some concessions when necessary. Learn to respect, care and help others, so that you can get the reward of others and experience the value and happiness of life. Strengthen self-cultivation, learn to control their own desires and words and deeds. Egocentrism is a kind of personality defect, which can lead to depression, anxiety and other psychological diseases.
it is not difficult to find that there are some people who have too strong egocentrism. They only want to satisfy their own desires and ask everyone to be their own, but they are unwilling to make any sacrifice for others and ignore the pain of others. They are selfish and benefit themselves at the expense of others. Ask all people to take him as the center, wish to let the earth revolve around his will, obey him. As long as they take care of them collectively and don't talk about collective discipline, they will feel aggrieved and can't stand it. But they are not willing to proceed from objective reality and cannot obey others and the collective. This kind of people strongly want others to respect him, but they don't know they have to respect others. In a word, these people are full of self, but there is no one else in their mind. What they believe in is that man is not for himself, and heaven will destroy the earth. The problem is that self-consciousness is too strong, leading to the extreme of self centeredness, or indivialism is serious
how to overcome self centeredness
the principle of reciprocity is emphasized in interpersonal communication. If you want others to be good to you, you should also pay accordingly. In order to satisfy one's self-esteem, maintain one's self-esteem and oppose others in communication, one can only isolate oneself from the outside world and be in a state of self isolation
for people with serious psychological barriers such as egocentrism, they should face up to the social reality, learn to reciprocate, and make some concessions when necessary. Learn to respect, care and help others, so that you can get the reward of others and experience the value and happiness of life. Strengthen self-cultivation, learn to control their own desires and words and deeds. Egocentrism is a kind of personality defect, which can lead to depression, anxiety and other psychological diseases.
4. Not idealism
the basic definition of idealism is that consciousness determines material, which is divided into subjective idealism and objective idealism
what you said about self centeredness should be egoism, which belongs to the category of morality<
egoism:
people always do what makes them most satisfied, and any conscious behavior of people is not like this. If people are willing to do what they are satisfied with, this desire is self-interest desire, then all people are self-interest desire, and it is this desire that dominates people's actions
whether an event is beneficial or disadvantageous to a person, or whether it has an interest, depends on the event, the person and the criteria used by the judge to judge the interest. There are all kinds of ways to judge a person's interests. For example, if health is taken as the standard, it is beneficial for the person to improve his health. Because of the different standards used by judges to judge interests, the same thing may have different interests to the same person
People's self-interest desire and self-interest behavior under the command of self-interest desire can be classified from the perspective of self-interest. Although people's wishes and behaviors are self-interest, their effects may be beneficial to others, harmful to others, or have no interest relationship with others. According to the standard of the interests of others, self-interest can be divided into self-interest at the expense of others, self-interest without harming others and self-interest at the expense of others. Don't think that there is a contradiction in terms of self-interest. Its meaning is very exact. A good thing for oneself can be good for others at the same time. Whether it is good for oneself or not depends on oneself; Whether it is good for others or not depends on others
to be self-centered is to set the standard of self-interest as everything for yourself
the basic definition of idealism is that consciousness determines material, which is divided into subjective idealism and objective idealism
what you said about self centeredness should be egoism, which belongs to the category of morality<
egoism:
people always do what makes them most satisfied, and any conscious behavior of people is not like this. If people are willing to do what they are satisfied with, this desire is self-interest desire, then all people are self-interest desire, and it is this desire that dominates people's actions
whether an event is beneficial or disadvantageous to a person, or whether it has an interest, depends on the event, the person and the criteria used by the judge to judge the interest. There are all kinds of ways to judge a person's interests. For example, if health is taken as the standard, it is beneficial for the person to improve his health. Because of the different standards used by judges to judge interests, the same thing may have different interests to the same person
People's self-interest desire and self-interest behavior under the command of self-interest desire can be classified from the perspective of self-interest. Although people's wishes and behaviors are self-interest, their effects may be beneficial to others, harmful to others, or have no interest relationship with others. According to the standard of the interests of others, self-interest can be divided into self-interest at the expense of others, self-interest without harming others and self-interest at the expense of others. Don't think that there is a contradiction in terms of self-interest. Its meaning is very exact. A good thing for oneself can be good for others at the same time. Whether it is good for oneself or not depends on oneself; Whether it is good for others or not depends on others
to be self-centered is to set the standard of self-interest as everything for yourself
5. People with this kind of psychological barrier observe things and analyze problems in a single line way of thinking. Everything is self-centered, love from a personal point of view, not from the overall situation< br />1 Because of the long-term love of parents, everything is top-notch, in the class still only consider their own existence, regardless of the interests of others
2. Children who are abused, beaten and abused by their families and let go often neglect to give others love because they can't get enough love, and only care about their own affairs
3. Some bad personality traits are also easy to lead to self centeredness, such as conceit, vanity, and dependence, Inner emptiness is easy to become "self-centered"
4. Influenced by family or surrounding environment. Such selfishness among parents, relatives and friends will certainly affect you
5. Dare to break through the "self-centered", when facing interpersonal conflicts, wise people should consider not only their own interests, but also the interests of others
6. To fight against "self-centered" is not to absolutely give up personal interests, but to learn to take into account the interests of all parties, not to go to extremes, and not to impose one's own will on others. In this way, we can graally get rid of the influence of "self-centered". Everyone has a sense of self-centered thinking, which is not good and will affect your interpersonal relationship, It affects your life. How to change self-centered thinking? With the passage of time, our efforts will not fail those who have a heart. We will try our best to change all self-centered and selfish thoughts, and also be able to think for others. Such people are successful. It is not difficult to find that there are some people who have a strong sense of egocentrism. They only want to satisfy their own desires and ask everyone to do for themselves, but they ignore the needs of others. They are unwilling to make any sacrifice for others and do not care about the pain of others. They are selfish and benefit themselves at the expense of others. Ask all people to take him as the center, wish to let the earth revolve around his will, obey him. As long as they take care of them collectively and don't talk about collective discipline, they will feel aggrieved and can't stand it. But they are not willing to proceed from objective reality and cannot obey others and the collective. This kind of people strongly want others to respect him, but they don't know they have to respect others. In a word, these people are full of self, but there is no one else in their mind. What they believe in is that man is not for himself, and heaven will destroy the earth. The problem lies in the excessive self-consciousness, the extreme of self-centered, or the serious indivialism. Undoubtedly, this kind of self-centered consciousness is extremely disadvantageous to himself. This will seriously affect a person's self-image, but also affect the formation of good ideological and moral character. So as to be hated and looked down upon. Due to the focus on the pursuit of petty gain and personal gain and loss, there is no lofty ideal and lofty goal. Therefore, it is impossible to have a good interpersonal relationship. Who would like to work with such a person for a long time or for a lifetime? It may be said that in the end, this kind of people only get sesame seeds and lose watermelon, which is really not worth the loss
so how can these people graally overcome this sense of self centeredness? The key is to change our understanding. First of all, we should face up to the social reality. Everyone in the society has their own desires and needs, as well as their rights and obligations. It is inevitable that there will be contradictions and it is impossible for everyone to wish. This requires everyone to face up to the objective reality, learn reciprocity, and make some concessions when necessary. Of course, we should recognize the right of self and the satisfaction of desire, but we can't just focus on ourselves and ignore the existence of others. If everyone has only self in mind, then, in fact, everyone will not have a good life. Second, jump out of your own circle and put yourself in other people's shoes. In order to understand others. And learn to respect, care, help others, so that you can get other people's return, from which you can experience the value and happiness of life. Third, strengthen self-cultivation and fully realize the unreality, irrationality and harmfulness of self-centered consciousness. Learn to control your desires and actions. The satisfaction of self-interest should be placed on a reasonable and feasible basis without harming others. Do the care to others, the public heart to their own.
2. Children who are abused, beaten and abused by their families and let go often neglect to give others love because they can't get enough love, and only care about their own affairs
3. Some bad personality traits are also easy to lead to self centeredness, such as conceit, vanity, and dependence, Inner emptiness is easy to become "self-centered"
4. Influenced by family or surrounding environment. Such selfishness among parents, relatives and friends will certainly affect you
5. Dare to break through the "self-centered", when facing interpersonal conflicts, wise people should consider not only their own interests, but also the interests of others
6. To fight against "self-centered" is not to absolutely give up personal interests, but to learn to take into account the interests of all parties, not to go to extremes, and not to impose one's own will on others. In this way, we can graally get rid of the influence of "self-centered". Everyone has a sense of self-centered thinking, which is not good and will affect your interpersonal relationship, It affects your life. How to change self-centered thinking? With the passage of time, our efforts will not fail those who have a heart. We will try our best to change all self-centered and selfish thoughts, and also be able to think for others. Such people are successful. It is not difficult to find that there are some people who have a strong sense of egocentrism. They only want to satisfy their own desires and ask everyone to do for themselves, but they ignore the needs of others. They are unwilling to make any sacrifice for others and do not care about the pain of others. They are selfish and benefit themselves at the expense of others. Ask all people to take him as the center, wish to let the earth revolve around his will, obey him. As long as they take care of them collectively and don't talk about collective discipline, they will feel aggrieved and can't stand it. But they are not willing to proceed from objective reality and cannot obey others and the collective. This kind of people strongly want others to respect him, but they don't know they have to respect others. In a word, these people are full of self, but there is no one else in their mind. What they believe in is that man is not for himself, and heaven will destroy the earth. The problem lies in the excessive self-consciousness, the extreme of self-centered, or the serious indivialism. Undoubtedly, this kind of self-centered consciousness is extremely disadvantageous to himself. This will seriously affect a person's self-image, but also affect the formation of good ideological and moral character. So as to be hated and looked down upon. Due to the focus on the pursuit of petty gain and personal gain and loss, there is no lofty ideal and lofty goal. Therefore, it is impossible to have a good interpersonal relationship. Who would like to work with such a person for a long time or for a lifetime? It may be said that in the end, this kind of people only get sesame seeds and lose watermelon, which is really not worth the loss
so how can these people graally overcome this sense of self centeredness? The key is to change our understanding. First of all, we should face up to the social reality. Everyone in the society has their own desires and needs, as well as their rights and obligations. It is inevitable that there will be contradictions and it is impossible for everyone to wish. This requires everyone to face up to the objective reality, learn reciprocity, and make some concessions when necessary. Of course, we should recognize the right of self and the satisfaction of desire, but we can't just focus on ourselves and ignore the existence of others. If everyone has only self in mind, then, in fact, everyone will not have a good life. Second, jump out of your own circle and put yourself in other people's shoes. In order to understand others. And learn to respect, care, help others, so that you can get other people's return, from which you can experience the value and happiness of life. Third, strengthen self-cultivation and fully realize the unreality, irrationality and harmfulness of self-centered consciousness. Learn to control your desires and actions. The satisfaction of self-interest should be placed on a reasonable and feasible basis without harming others. Do the care to others, the public heart to their own.
6.
Egocentrism is indivialism. The definition of indivialism in philosophy is: in the practice of social life, everything is considered from the personal outlook on life and values, personal desires and interests are supreme, regardless of the interests and feelings of others and the public, and all the ideas and behavior patterns are based on personal gains and losses
In addition, the definition of indivialism in the sociological field is that everything starts from the indivial, puts the indivial interests above the collective interests, and only cares about oneself, regardless of the wrong ideas of others 
extended materials:
egocentrism generally has the following three characteristics:
1. Blindly emphasize your own feelings, say what you want to say
< P > can't understand other people's mood, just blindly emphasize your own feelings. Just say what you want to say, ignore each other's feelings, and even hurt each other's feelings without knowing it. They don't pay attention to other people's needs, and they have no interest in meeting other people's needs2, habitual defense
because I don't want to hear other people's negative views on myself, I respond to criticism without thinking, even if these views are constructive. The function of this defense is to nullify the opposition of others. Another kind of performance is love to complain, so it is easy to solidify and narrow thinking
3. They think that they are the wisest and they are the main ones in everything.
they are arrogant and think that their ideas are much better than others. They don't want to listen to any suggestions from others and hope that everything will follow them, otherwise they will easily feel resentment. It is very difficult for such people to cooperate with others in their work. Nowadays, they all need cooperation. Everyone's ideas and positions should have the opportunity to be heard
7. Egocentrism is indivialism. The definition of indivialism in philosophy is: in the practice of social life, everything is considered from the personal outlook on life and values, personal desires and interests are supreme, regardless of the interests and feelings of others and the public, and all ideas and behavior patterns are based on personal gains and losses
in addition, the definition of indivialism in the field of sociology is that everything starts from the indivial, puts the indivial interests above the collective interests, only cares about oneself, regardless of the wrong ideas of others
this idea is not very good. If there is one, I hope I can overcome it.
in addition, the definition of indivialism in the field of sociology is that everything starts from the indivial, puts the indivial interests above the collective interests, only cares about oneself, regardless of the wrong ideas of others
this idea is not very good. If there is one, I hope I can overcome it.
8. You mean subjective idealism
subjective idealism is one of the basic forms of idealist philosophy. Subjective idealism regards certain subjective spirit of noumenon, such as feeling, experience, mind, consciousness, idea and will, as the source and foundation of all things in the world of consciousness, and all things in the world of consciousness are derived from these subjective spirits, which are the manifestation of these subjective spirits. The study of mind in song and Ming Dynasties of China; Mind is reason& quot; My heart is the universe& quot; There is nothing outside the heart& quot; Irrational outside the heart;, Berkeley's & quot; Being is being perceived& quot; Things are the collection of ideas; Such views are representative and typical subjective idealism.
subjective idealism is one of the basic forms of idealist philosophy. Subjective idealism regards certain subjective spirit of noumenon, such as feeling, experience, mind, consciousness, idea and will, as the source and foundation of all things in the world of consciousness, and all things in the world of consciousness are derived from these subjective spirits, which are the manifestation of these subjective spirits. The study of mind in song and Ming Dynasties of China; Mind is reason& quot; My heart is the universe& quot; There is nothing outside the heart& quot; Irrational outside the heart;, Berkeley's & quot; Being is being perceived& quot; Things are the collection of ideas; Such views are representative and typical subjective idealism.
9. The main performance of egocentrism is
it is not difficult to find that there are some people who have too strong egocentrism. They only want to satisfy their own desires and ask everyone to be their own, but they are unwilling to make any sacrifice for others and ignore the pain of others. They are selfish and benefit themselves at the expense of others. Ask all people to take him as the center, wish to let the earth revolve around his will, obey him. As long as they take care of them collectively and don't talk about collective discipline, they will feel aggrieved and can't stand it. But they are not willing to proceed from objective reality and cannot obey others and the collective. This kind of people strongly want others to respect him, but they don't know they have to respect others. In a word, these people are full of self, but there is no one else in their mind. What they believe in is that man is not for himself, and heaven will destroy the earth. The problem is that self-consciousness is too strong, leading to the extreme of self centeredness, or indivialism is serious
how to overcome self centeredness
the principle of reciprocity is emphasized in interpersonal communication. If you want others to be good to you, you should also pay accordingly. In order to satisfy one's self-esteem, maintain one's self-esteem and oppose others in communication, one can only isolate oneself from the outside world and be in a state of self isolation. For people with serious psychological barriers such as egocentrism, they should face up to the social reality, learn to be polite and give in when necessary. Learn to respect, care and help others, so that you can get the reward of others and experience the value and happiness of life. Strengthen self-cultivation, learn to control their own desires and words and deeds. Egocentrism is a kind of personality defect, which can lead to depression, anxiety and other psychological diseases.
it is not difficult to find that there are some people who have too strong egocentrism. They only want to satisfy their own desires and ask everyone to be their own, but they are unwilling to make any sacrifice for others and ignore the pain of others. They are selfish and benefit themselves at the expense of others. Ask all people to take him as the center, wish to let the earth revolve around his will, obey him. As long as they take care of them collectively and don't talk about collective discipline, they will feel aggrieved and can't stand it. But they are not willing to proceed from objective reality and cannot obey others and the collective. This kind of people strongly want others to respect him, but they don't know they have to respect others. In a word, these people are full of self, but there is no one else in their mind. What they believe in is that man is not for himself, and heaven will destroy the earth. The problem is that self-consciousness is too strong, leading to the extreme of self centeredness, or indivialism is serious
how to overcome self centeredness
the principle of reciprocity is emphasized in interpersonal communication. If you want others to be good to you, you should also pay accordingly. In order to satisfy one's self-esteem, maintain one's self-esteem and oppose others in communication, one can only isolate oneself from the outside world and be in a state of self isolation. For people with serious psychological barriers such as egocentrism, they should face up to the social reality, learn to be polite and give in when necessary. Learn to respect, care and help others, so that you can get the reward of others and experience the value and happiness of life. Strengthen self-cultivation, learn to control their own desires and words and deeds. Egocentrism is a kind of personality defect, which can lead to depression, anxiety and other psychological diseases.
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